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i find myself not wanting to hang out with many of the guys in the frat...a number larger than id like it to be. you might say im in the wrong frat then, but there is a large group of people i do like, so i dont necessarily think i made a bad choice by joining beta (one of the advisers told me that if i dont like as many people as i counted off to him, i shouldnt even be in beta). should i force myself to hang out with these guys i dont really care to talk to, or just hope for the best and wait it out?
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Any chapter is going to have groups of people who spend more time with one another. Our chapter has 20 guys and there are still cliques. My only advice to them has been for them to spend time with whomever they choose, but to also make a concerted effort to spend quality time with other guys also. You never who you might connect with while having a quick drink or meal.
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