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					Originally Posted by AlphaFrog  Would it be considered rude for the woman to tactfully say something like "This seems like a great house, but I really don't feel like I fit in here."?  Otherwise, if she's being blatantly rude so as to not get invited back, other houses (that she does want) are going to hear about it. | 
	
 Put yourself back during rush.
Now think about how you would feel if a rushee said that to you.  No matter how nicely she said it, I think you would be upset and say OMG WHAT A BIA!!