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					Originally Posted by 33girl  Some schools do this, but some do not.  The problem comes when a woman keeps saying she doesn't want to go back to a chapter, they keep inviting her back and there's no way for them to know (unless she's straight up rude) that she really doesn't want to be there. | 
	
 Would it be considered rude for the woman to tactfully say something like "This seems like a great house, but I really don't feel like I fit in here."?  Otherwise, if she's being blatantly rude so as to not get invited back, other houses (that she does want) are going to hear about it.