Originally Posted by 33girl

Well, once the NMs are initiated and become more integrated with the chapter, they're going to find out the gossip, anyway.

Are they trying to get them to stop pledging or what? If it's a personal grudge - i.e. an alum saying "Sandy is a backstabbing ho with no fashion sense" - then that should be stopped. But if they're telling them something that is the truth - i.e. "the reason we don't have mixers w/ XYZ is because they trashed our president's apartment last year" then quite frankly I don't see the harm in NMs knowing that. They shouldn't be sheltered like children.

BTW OTW, I am referring to the Sandy I know IRL, not you.