I call it, "The Pretzel Effect."
Just an observation that a lot of girls will bend themselves and their interests to meet their idea of what their BF wants . . . in the beginning anyway.
Major problems later when she starts to unbend.
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Originally Posted by KSUViolet06
*Clingy is being unable to go anywhere or do anything without your significant other.
"Hey Suzy, do you wanna go *insert girly activity here*?"
"Oh that sounds like fun, can Bob come?"
That's a clinger.
*Now there is nothing wrong with supporting your significant other's interests by doing things that he likes to do sometimes. When your boyfriend's interests become your own, you're a clinger.
For example, Suzy used to really like jogging, scrapbooking, and snowboarding. Once she started dating her new boyifriend Bob, she stopped doing all the things she liked to do and started only doing what he liked to do. Her new hobbies now include wearing jean shorts, black t shirts with metal bands on them, watching WWF 5 nights a week and ordering pro wresting events on Pay Per View. Sad.
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