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Originally Posted by navane
Just give it some more time. Like KSUViolet06 said, it's only been a few weeks. If you have to, go to a sister you like (perhaps your new member educator) and explain to her that you're feeling a little left out and ask if she has any advice.
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This is a good idea - the members of the chapter don't know how you're feeling if you don't confide in someone. I'd recommend talking with someone that you feel comfortable with (new member educator, your big, or any other active member). You may be pleasantly surprised at how they step up when they realize that you're not feeling included.
If you're still feeling that way after expressing your feelings and going through your pledge term, then you still have time to decide before initiating whether you really made the right choice for you. But I have a feeling that with time and letting a trusted member know how you feel, the situation will resolve itself.
Good luck!