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Originally Posted by LaneSig
adpiucf is giving good advice. You can also speak to your chapter advisors and get their input.
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Don't talk to your chapter advisors, they won't help you at all, with anything. Ever. Sorry, but as a new chapter, they think you will probably fail within the first couple of years. Sad but true.
Make a rule: no dating brothers. That is the same as no dating the dream girl, which is probably a good idea, having someone's girlfriend as dreamgirl causes nothing but drama. Trust me.
That being said, you won't gain the respect of other chapters untill you start winning stuff. Intramurals, President cup, etc.
Also, unforetunetly, male adolencese doesn't end until about 25, so that means that you will probably have to fight another fraternity, if your campus is like mine was.
Actually, if you go through your college expericence without another group wanting to fight you because they are jealous I will be surprised.
Also, make sure that everyone gets in because of HIMSELF not his sexual orientation, etc.