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Originally Posted by Tom Earp
If I am correct, this must have been a BF/GF H S thing as her Ex BF just joined SN.
If this person is so bad, I think the Chapter would have some smart women in it and will catch on very quickly.
Crying wolf can make you look like a former G F who carrys a grudge.
If you contact said chapter, I would suggest that you only say be careful of this girl and leave it at that.
If it is not your chapter, then so what? If she does get in, she is only one person out of the many who are members.
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1) She's not "crying wolf." She has first-hand knowledge of less-than-desirable behavior. Nor is she carrying a grudge. She has made her peace with her ex and moved on.
2) It may not be her chapter, but it
is her sisterhood. I see nothing wrong with her, should this lady (for lack of a better term) go through recruitment, giving her sisters a heads up. In these overly litigious days, you cannot be too careful.
3) It would be pretty difficult to just say "be careful of this girl." The members of the other chapter would, in all probability, want to know why. My organization has a procedure for informing other chapters of pnms would could be potential risk management issues; I would not be surprised to find out that ADPi has a similar system.
4) Recruitment can be hectic, and most everyone is on her best behavior. I highly doubt that this girl would tell sorority members during recruitment that her hobbies include harassing her boyfriend's ex-girlfriends and using marijuana on a non-medicinal basis. If she's crazy enough to let that slip, whether or not sdsushelle contacts that chapter becomes a non-issue. You're always better off safe rather than sorry.