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					Originally Posted by  _Lisa_
					 
				 
				I think that writing a letter about a personal grudge might only make you look petty to the chapter sisters, but an infomative letter about her undesirable habits could get your point across just fine. 
			
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 As long as you are 100% SURE about her drink/drug habits. If you heard this through a friend of a friend of a friend...that's not so reliable. It's a pretty big accusation to make, even if it is *just* sorority recruitment. Keep in mind that people read/see those letters, so word will spread around the campus she lives on. If untrue, you can land in a world of crap. 
And I agree with those who said mention the undesireable traits, but leave boyfriend out of it.