[AKA_Monet]

Macallan25,

Sorry, but you did walk into this comment from me...

YOU AIN'T GOT THE DICK-STRENGTH TO EVEN HANDLE A SISTAH!

That's why you say you are not attracted to a Black Woman. But I bet you, if Beyonce was calling you everyday, you'd drop everything you would be doing to be with homegirl. Just like Dave Chappelle was with his Oprah episode on the Chappelle Show...

Dude, you know I am joking... But seriously, we all know you cannot fathom "crossing the street" and go marry someone outside your ethnic cultural heritage, because your marriage is probably already "pre-arranged" anyway... So basically, your choice in a mate(s) is/are extremely limited. Besides you will be required to be hitched no later than 25-27 years old and a kid popped out by the time you are 30.

But, the irony of most of these comments are you can think all you want about relationships and marriage, but you will NEVER know who you marry until you sign that marriage license... Sometimes it works out, most times it doesn't. What does that say about our state of marriages in the United States in general? Then some folks are dying to legally recognized marriages--but that is a whole-different discussion.

For now, we are dealing with young people--and if you are under the age of 35 years old, you are young--'cuz I'm old... Y'all's mentality is just dating...

The question is are you dating to have fun? Or are you dating to court? Depending your answer, either way, you best know who you are and what you are about because you can avoid some problems in the future. I think that race, ethnicity, heritage, religion, and creed are bullshit-assed reasons for dating exclusion. But that's my opinion and I'm entitled to it.