| MysticCat |
09-16-2008 03:39 PM |
Assuming this is on the up-and-up, I'll hit a few highlights.
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Originally Posted by SimplyME143
(Post 1718706)
I've often accused him of cheating on me, thinking it will make him feel too guilty to actually cheat on me.
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Or it will make him figure that if he's going to take the blame anyway, he might as well do the crime. Guess that strategy didn't work out for you, huh?
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He didn't call me until about 1 am. I was pissed, we got into an argument I just didn't understand why he couldn't call me to tell me he was going to a friend's house. He said he was scared I'd get mad that he wouldn't talk to me.
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From your description, it sounds like his fears were well-founded.
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The next day, I did what any girl would do, I went on his myspace and looked her up. Since we're two hours away we figured the best way that we can have security is to give each other our myspace and facebook passwords.
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Actual trust isn't working for either of you, huh?
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She messaged him and asked him if he wanted to hang out that night or if Saturday was still on. I called him up and asked him if he was still coming to see me Saturday. He said he wasn't sure anymore and that it depends on if his sister will let him borrow her car, his truck was in the shop.
I said okay I asked the girl, pretending to be him, for her phone number because i lost it. I got it and called her up. Cursed her out and she told me she didn't know about me.
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Just wow.
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. . . but i told her i had a secret about him (lying of course) that she may need to know.
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Given how much lying you're doing here, why in the world would you expect him or anyone else to be truthful?
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Well I decided to trust him and take him back.
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I'm still trying to figure out why he decided to trust you -- or put up with you, for that matter.
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She texted me few hours later telling me I was pathetic to revolve my life around a man. I told him that he did a good job in choosing them, because he got himself a crazy one. He texts her and apologizes for hurting her and doesn't tell me. I found out because i found out his passcode to find his cell phone history. He told me he didn't want to tell me because I would get mad.
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Huh. Imagine him thinking you'd get mad.
WHY?
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What should I do to get over the fact that he's hurt me? How can I make it better? I bring her up in almost every fight. I've never been the type to hate someone, but her LAURA I HATE and DESPISE! Please help me, I don't have to have so much anger inside of me. I've told him I've forgiven him, but he and I both know that I haven't. So what should I do?
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Grow up? Start acting like an adult instead of a middle-schooler and start treating him like an adult? Stop expecting him to be honest with you when you're busy finding out his passwords to check-up on him? Get your own place? |
