Is this girl crazy?
 

Ok, there's this chick that I've been "chillin" with for a lil while, late at night sometimes.

I've had 4 intimate escapades with her during the month I've known her. Only 4. Thats kinda lacking in my department since I like this other girl.


Now, last night she stayed the night with me and I woke up this morning after she had left.


I found this.....


* Craig *

(I wrote this for you )

A cold breeze, a clear night
the soft touch of your fingertips
Gentley carresing my knee.

How unlikely I thought, to be here
next to you on this utterly peaceful evening.

Light gazes, softly spoken words
Intertwined into a thoughtful kiss,
on the chest, neck, nose, then a satisfying taste
upon my lips

the first page, in a chapter
of an open book
I wonder? How will this end?

Jessica


I'm wondering.....should I go ahead and cut her off? I think this girl might be getting attached to me. She tried to wake me up and read it to me before she left, I just acted like I was sleeping and started snoring. She quickly left, giving me a kiss on the cheek to say goodbye.

I popped up and read the poem.....it freaked me out.

Girls like that have strong emotions and can easily turn into that chick from fatal attraction.

What makes things even more awkward....she just "pops" over without even calling me. I told her before......"Don't do that, I could have another girl over and things wouldn't be good."

Her reply:
"Well, I wouldn't make a scene. I'd just leave."


What do some of you think about this situation?

UF

Crazy? No. But it sounds like she likes you a lot. If I were you, I would end everything as soon as possible so as not to hurt her any more than necessary.

I agree with K Rose....let her down gently, but do it soon b/c she's already way more attached than you are. Good luck! :)

Thank you Tracy.....


I needed some reassurance since my boys are telling me she might be pyscho.

I don't think she's psycho, Craig. She's just way more into you than you are her. And by writing that poem and giving it to you, she's made herself vulnerable, so try to be gentle with her when letting her down.

Plus , :p If she IS psycho, a gentle let down will induce far less psycho-ness than a blow off. Don't piss her off, just in case. ;)

:)
Amy

and this is why our chapter lives by this motto:



BOYS ARE STUPID!!!
THROW ROCKS AT THEM!!!

Not to be rude but are you being serious?

That sounds made up. Not very many women I know would be like, "Oh, you could be with another girl? well Iwouldn't make a scene!" I'd be like, "Then I am done with you! Enjoy the other girl!"

Clearly you have little respect for this girls emotions, if you truly believe she is into you more than you are in to her, you need to be up front about it. Tell her you don't want anything serious, and since she is clearly in 'another place' it's not going to work out if you date, as you don't want/can't give her what she needs.

This is good advice.

But seriously...this story is a bit odd to me.

wait, so your name really is Craig? I thought it wasn't?


Trippy......

AMEN SISTER! :)

OMG- when I was in school.. in like 1996... someone chalked this on one of the busier sidewalks .. actually it said "Boys are DUMB. Throw rocks at them". haha!

one of the TKEs found a huge poster that said 'boys are stupid. throw rocks at them.'


he gave it to us to hang in our office

Re: Re: Is this girl crazy?
 

lol. inflate the ego a bit why dont you?

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Ahhhh, too late for that don't cha think? :D

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gotta admit, he has some endearing qualities

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Like what? Me? Admit to that? How much are you gonna pay me? jk

Oh, God. Craig (?) is gonna get me.....please call me a Korean chick again, I don't hear it often enough...lol

If you are not interested in a relationship with this girl, you need to end things now. She is obviously not the type who can hook up and shut off the emotions.

Pshyco? Probably not... but maybe. I sure as hell wouldn't do something like that to someone who's not my boyfriend.

Yeah, Amy has a good point.

The poem deserves a giant awwwwwwwww even from the boys.

Now, I am assuming she isn't unfortunate looking, so why break up with her or let her down easy?

That seems needlessly cruel as well as shooting yuorself in the foot.

Lets see, you have a pretty girl that will just come over and hava sex with you. Write you poetry. Probably do nice thingss for you, and will settle for whatever of you she can have, knowing she can't have you exclusively.

What are you a fricking moron? you keep her and are nice to her as long as you can. Duh.

You haven't made any promises so you aren't leading her on at all. And for all you know, this all the relationship she can handle from you anyway. It would be funny if you tried for more with her and she replied:" Why did you have to og and ruin it . .".

Anyway, stay and keep sleeping with her oh clueless one.

I'm dead serious. It's a wierd situation. This girls knows I'm not going to date her, however...I think she sticks around because the sex is incredible. And how do you know few women would act the way she does? Last time I checked you didn't represent a large majority of women. That said, you're throwing out a guess which is entirely inaccurate. If it was accurate, there wouldn't be people who have sex outside of a reltionship.

It goes a little like this.....

You have sex with someone, you like it, you have it more. After awhile you start getting attached.....All you females know how easy it is to get attached to someone in a month....it's not hard.

It's true...I don't care about her emotions that much. However, I do care about them enough not to make the girl go crazy on me and phuck up my vehicle or do something worse.

Craig it is......


And thats about all you'll find out, Blaine.

The sex is great, I'm not complaining. Though she is a bit inexperienced....which is a good thing. She's got fake tits....:D :D

It's just I'm a little worried about her mind. She's made a few comments that had me thinking " WTF am I getting into?".

Here's one in a round about way......

" You better not be playing me, If I find you in bed with another girl I'll phuck hers and your shit up."

I totally went off on her about that comment the next day.....I was too phucked up at the time for what she said to actually register that in my brain and then process it so I could have something good to come at her. Her comeback the next day was..." I was kidding"......Most people know you don't play like that. Thats when I threatened to cut all ties to her and she said that she woudln't make a scene.

It's kinda weird.

BTW, let me add James....


Recently I told her to get on birth control. She did, about 2 weeks ago. That action leads me to believe that she totally plans on staying with this for awhile.

F**K get away now!
 

Since you are a fellow greek peer. I need to warn you bro women can be F***KN crazy. If she is acting like that now get away. I'm serious forget about the sex CRAIG!!! I learned through experience women can be downright scandalous. This girl pretty much did the same thing to me and I didn't even have great sex with her I was drunk half the time. I should have known better because she had liked me for a while before we did the hippity dippity. IT got crazy she would come over when I didn't expect it, jump all over me when I talked to other girls when she was around and we weren't even boyfriend and girlfriend. So I stopped talking to her and then guess what the icing on the cake. She accused me of date rape and went and told our chapter president when I was at work. No one believed her but he brought it up during meeting. She later apologized and told me she was wrong for doing that but I sucked because I already looked like a complete D**k in front of my brothers since I was a recent transfer and most of them didn't know me that well. GET OUT NOW I'm serious women come and go, but your reputation won't . Your better than that get out !!

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See.....Dude thats the kind of stuff I'm worried about from this chick. I'm serious, I don't think she's stable upstairs. She's that girl you don't want to piss off because if you do....and she sees you out at a club one night.....I might be that guy who gets a drink dumped on his head and ends up getting kicked out for retaliating. I wouldn't punch her, but I have done some nasty things to chicks that do $hit like that.

I agree. Throw rocks. Big rocks. From close range. :eek:

Crystal

Instead, how 'bout we a get one of those potato guns from one of the Fraternity houses? They are much easier than rocks and I hear they go longer distances...lol

Even better, KDatUTC!!!!

Re: F**K get away now!
 

yeah bringing that up in a meeting was completely wrong and un called for.

back to the topic - yeah um she sounds like the co dependent type, maybe not psycho yet but getting there pretty soon.

you are questioning the mental stability of this girl, yet you are trusting her with the birth control aspect of your escapades?

I think that amycat is on target. She likes you more than you like her. i don't know her so I can't say that she is psycho or not. I think that you should follow your instincts. Just be gentle with her because you don't want her to destroy your car or boil your bunny. :eek:

good point! what if they end up on maury trying to get a paternity test!!:eek:

Potato guns rock.

Yes, I've heard this by many, many dudes:)