so her idea of her chapter may be different than the chapter itself; she may just feel out of place. my chapter is small, and we are not all small girls. however, we are all clean, and we all represent our chapter wonderfully, and with respect for our letters. our small numbers is not because of how we look, rather who we want. we are extreamly close, and look for qualities in pnm's that we see in ourselves. i feel bad that she feels that her chapter is 'frumpy;' but could it just be her thoughts, and NOT what her chapter really is?

granted, i know this was written over two years ago, but i still felt that i should post. i feel that sockpuppet3 feels the same way today, as she did then. and that is sad.