Re: Ladies, I need to vent to you... Men won't understand
 

HC b/c its not always guaranteed that the other thing will happen?
HC *hugs*
HC I feel your pain?
HC drink cranberry juice.
HC woo woo woo

HC i didn't know what the heck y'all were talking about until nikki1920 said "cranberry juice?"

HC damn homie, that sucks.

HC every day, I find a new reason to be glad i am a man. :D

HC The ex called me at work this morning?
HC He is sooo determined to get us back together?
HC I guess that's his mission for the year?
HC He said he is willing to do whatever, including fight for me?
HC whatever!!! :rolleyes: :rolleyes:
HC He sounds really sad
HC whatever!!!

HC Dr. King would probably be embarrassed to know that most streets that are named after him are in the most violent part of town - when he stood for non-violence??

SC

(here's the next line of the rap - I think)
HC here's comes your mother with those two little guys?
HC her mean mother stepped up said to me "Hi," slapped Sally in the face and decked her in the eye. Punched her in the belly, stepped on her feet, slammed the child on the hard concrete.

HC I forgot the rest? :)

SC

HC This all went down on MLK Drive

HC that is just ridiculous?
HC we seem to have a problem with acting like we have sense sometimes?
HC my own theory is that it's partly because many of the people that we are allowing to have a *voice* in our community have NO HOME TRAINING (ex: rappers)?
HC whose idea was it to recruit the worst of the worst who have absolutely no home training to speak to the kids and young adults?
HC that was not a good plan?
HC was Smokey Robinson and The Temptations and 'nem hoodlums before becoming singers?
HC I'm tired of hoodlums on the radio and their effect on our community?
HC hoodlums be quiet, please? :)

SC

HC I know that Motown put its artists through charm and poise school in the 1960s?
HC if you tried to do that today, people would be screaming about "assimilation" :rolleyes: and "acting white?"
HC I agree that rappers and others who don't have any home training are putting out ridiculous images that are hard to shake?
HC we just don't have the margin for error that other populations have?

HC OOH, girl you aint neva lied!!!!!!!! *smh*
HC mercy mercy me...

just a question...
 

HC I want to know who determines what 'charm and poise' are?
HC me and a friend were discussing this?
HC are these standards arbitrary?
HC this always sparks an interesting discussion?
HC it's CLEARLY not 'acting white' because we have come across white folks who don't adhere to these 'rules?'
HC sooooo, where do they come from?
HC for the record, I have taken charm classes?
HC it was for a cotillion?
HC I brought my cotillion scrapbook to the school so that my girls could see that I'm not trying to get them to do something that I haven't already done myself?

Re: just a question...
 

HC honestly, I'm not sure where such standards come from?:confused:
HC they might be rather arbitrary?
HC I got a lot of these type things from my mother, older sister and godmother, by osmosis?
HC that I think that older generations, regardless of race, are more into decorum and poise?
HC it's good that you brought your scrapbook to your girlinas?

Re: Re: just a question...
 

HC these girls would much rather be 'gansta' than be a lady?
HC it burns me up?!
HC I want them to just be little ladies?
HC the latest lesson is teaching them to keep their purses with them at ALL times?
HC they are so ready to cry out that someone stole their purse?
HC I just can't understand that?
HC my mother told me that you take your purse with you EVERYWHERE?
HC even to the potty?
HC there is ONE girl in my house who gets it?
HC she SLEEPS with her purse? LOL

HC ok, that's a lil too much.
HC but if her roommate has sticky hands, then I understand? lol
HC I feel naked w/out a purse?
HC when I went back to grad school, and had a book bag, I still felt like I forgot something?
HC lol

HC God loves you :)
HC I thought someone might need to hear that today.
HC Janet Jackson needs to put another record out!

HC thanks Nikki, i needed that?
HC I am at a crossroads?
HC for some reason, after 2 and half years on a job, I get bored, uninterested, and ready to move on? :(
HC this happened with my last job?
HC its happening now? :(
HC is this adult ADD or something?
HC am I the only person that experiences this?
HC NEways.....
HC I am ready for my next move?
HC God, its me Honeykiss1974?
HC I'm listening....? http://www.mayoclinic.com/images/sli...2_earintro.jpg

HC i'm in class?
HC I'm bored?:( :o
HC my prof. reminds me of Ned Flanders?