ilovepka14 |
10-06-2008 12:46 PM |
I understand the wanting answers and all that jazz about your cheatin piece of shit; I too have recently learned that my boyfriend cheated on me this past summer, it hurts and it sucks..and the girl..well she's a bitch who well...lets just say wont be trying to get around my bf or me anymore... but back to the point. It took a lot for me to even look at my boyfriend let alone you're living with him, thats harsh... I think if you're going to take him back and stay with him then you really need to give yourself the time to get over it, dont let pety things get to you or you'll always fight and bring up whoever ur significant other was once with. It takes time; lots and lots of time, i still question my boyfriend sometimes, although i know he isnt doing it anymore its always going to be in the back of your mind you just have to leave it there and do your best not to bring it up. Start by checking yourself first, you may be to blame in the situation, especially if he is afraid to tell you anything at all, maybe you're a little too aggresive and naturally not good at trusting someone. spend time with him not badger him. Dont be up his butt 24:7. let him live his life and trust that he isnt going to cheat again, and if you cant let that happen then you yourself need to do some growing up and leave him. I understand shit happens and people mess up but part of life is learning how to cope and get over things move forward and not always dwell in the past. If you cant look forward and see him/her in it then you just need to peace out on him and move on instead of wasting each others time.
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