Thank You Soror, Thats exactly what I'm saying. A person is not an ass because of the organization they belong to, but because they have always been an ass.




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"18 Catacombs of Greatness"

Melody, reread my post. I did not say that if sorors don't understand the bond, than they are not sorors. I would never disrespect any soror or question their process in a public forum. Obviously, with any organization members are made differently.
Much Delta Luv

What's up bruhs and sorors? This is the Ace Dog FA 94 from Bowie State. Haven't been here in a minute so much love to all. To comment on the topic, I must say that since I can remember the bruhs and sorors have always kicked it;always have/always will!!!! But let's remember that they are men/women first before they are Ques or Deltas so that means there is going to be some folks who still act like a GDI. I can say I have never dissed a member of DST(or any sorrority members)just because I'm a bruh. My lil sister just crossed DST at the University of Deleware and my ties are even greater with DST becasue of it. My momma-n-law is DST and a Minister so she would put me in the hole if I ever attempted to dis DST.
If you are ever in the 2nd District come to Bowie State and the bruhs will be setting it out for all the bruhs as well as the sorors!!!!


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What's up number? This is the Ace Dog FA 94(Bowie State)I feel you on the hopping and all. I have to agree with the way the topic has been flowing; however I think everyone is putting too much emphasis on the fact that bruhs do what they do because they;re bruhs. Those same bruhs who are gnawing on the sorors would probably be doing the same if they were a member of another frat; the again they probably wouldn't because we are unique in all that we do. I can say in my day I've gnawed on a female or two but it was welcomed and when they got tired of it I had enough sense to STOP. Most bruhs take it to another level though; making it seem like we all are bad dawgs with no training. Sorors that just isn't so!!!! Like I've said before; come to Bowie State and see for yourself. I can also say that those individuals who are bothered by the act itself should do all they can to avoid these situations because as long as you're Greek this may happen!!!! You heard the rumors so you knew what to expct when you joined. Stop being so sensitive and enjoy Omega/DST love to the fullest!!!! And I'm gone alright alright!!!!
P.S. This post is not directed towards anyone in particular but if anyone takes it personal; oh well!!!! Can't please em' all.

Dawg
I forgot to reply to your original question. I'm feeling that song also. It's playing on the radio as we speak. Hey Dawg, set out a hop!!!!

oo-oop to the coleman family! let me preface my comments by saying that the vast majority of experience i have had with the bruhs have been great. and i expect love when i meet them. i would agree with most of what you said except fot the part about bruhs who bite would do that if they were members of other orgs. in many cases, not just the bruhs, people who had less extroverted personalities become really out and hype. and in many ways try to live up to the reputation of the organization. i have seen many AKA's with very short hair almost break their necks trying to sling hair that they don't have. quiet girls who become soror start acting like real divas and so on. so, i suppose the point i'm making is that sometimes people act how they think they are supposed to act now that they are greek like bruhs biting or licking women. i know of bruhs who would never have done that in there former lives, but will do it know cause they think it's expected.

DSTBRAT: you are so right about people changing after they pledge and trying to live up to the stereotype. For many Bruhs, being "out" often means being disorderly. My old roommate used to be a shy, humble Kentucky farmboy. As soon as he became a Kappa, he thought his farts were air freshener.

ESIGMAQUE: welcome back Dawg. Glad your boys had a new line. My neo crossed with them in the spring.

Thanks Dawg! You know when there is a new litter of pups and they be trying to get into everything? That's our Neos! Dawg; them boys is out!!!! I second what you and DSTBRAT are talking about how people are normal and when they cross they act like they assume they should be acting. With me I call a spade a spade and if I ever come across a bruh that I knew before and then I see him afterwards and he's acting out of character; I let him know. There are so many imposters out here that it's crazy. Anyone reading this; just be yourself and realize that no matter how you were made(or wasn't) folks are either going to accept you or they're not so you don't have to put on a front. Good to see the Ol' Bruh still hangin' in there. Keep up the good work!!!! and I'm gone.......alright alright.

Hey ladies I'm not trippin' but the majority of the times you sorors don't even talk to each other. I get around. See the way I look at is like this. The bruhz are real, we are not all the time trying to sniff or lick on your boodie we just like to feel comfortable and kick it. Most sorors hang out with the Sweet alphas, kappas, etc.. and feel comfortable because the majority of the time you girls don't feel a threat because they are putting on a front and most young people between 26-19 put on those fronts and think that is hyped. The Ques keep it real. And continue to be real. Some bruhz be hyped to see sorors and some don't because I'm not pointing fingers, but you all made it that way. I love the Soror's. Just like I told a soror 5 years ago. She had just crossed, I saw her walking down the street and I said what's up and she said nothing. So me being who I am walked over and asked her what was up with that? She said she didn't like the Ques. I said to her, "You don't have to like the Ques, but we have a little bond that means alot and if I was walking like I am now and a doode was trying to rob you-you would scream hay bruh help. Now I could let that doode bust your head cause you don't like the Ques or I could whoop doode out because you are black first of all and a soror of mine. She understood, and today we are very good friends and bruh and soror. So ladies we know you love your DST. Just give us a chance.

I have been reading these posts and just wanted to send some love to my sorors and to the bruhs. I really think that every Delta's experience with Omega men depends on that particular bruh. I've experienced both positive and negative relationships with some bruhs or have even plain disliked some BUT I love the bruhs and a few jerks aren't making me dislike Omega Psi Phi or EVERY member. Every bruh is different just like every soror is different. Coleman Luv is definitely alive and well in my life, but that's just me http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/wink.gif

excuse me for intruding because i know this was directed to members of omega psi phi and delta sigma theta, but, i have been reading the posts and i see the word "gnawing" come up a lot. i know what the term means, which worries me. have some of you ladies of delta sigma theta had men of omega psi phi chew on you? if so, is there a hidden and secretive meaning? or, is it just colorful language (which i'm hoping it is)?

I feel you, frat. And, anyone who posts regularly on GC knows that I simply ADORE the bruhs. BUT-- unfortunately, not ALL of the Ques keep it real. Since you broke it down about my sorors, I just have to say my piece. I have known so many Ques who act COMPLETELY out of character when they're wearing their P&G 'nalia or at a greek function. As we've said before, some people try to live up to the stereotypes of their orgs, and SOME Ques are no different. It's like they become totally different people when they are around bruhs and in the Omega limelight, and they say/do things they'd NEVER do under any other circumstances. I've seen it happen way too much with people in all the orgs, including Delta.

The moral of my story? For the most part, YES-- the bruhs, in general, do keep it real. But again, we all have some bad apples in our families.

Much love to you, bang bang! OOP-ROO!

And I'm Out!

the411



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Pi Kappa, SP97
#3 of QUINTESSENCE

Much love got out to you to "the411" Be out in all facets.


#7 on this here line
#5 cause I love it so much that I had to do it twice

I just decided to see what was going on da bruh's board.
I know I'm late, but here's my take:
You don't need a constitution to have a bond. Of course, the bond only goes but so far, though. A soror should not hyperventilate when she sees a bruh and vice versa. A soror CERTAINLY should not show a bruh more enthusiasm and love than she shows her own--that happens a lot.
But, since DST and OPP are the largest sorority and fraternity...of course, there will be members of the Coleman fam who do not know how to act. I do not hold one bruh's actions against the whole...and I do not expect to be mistreated by bruhs if I show them love: not having the other side of the Coleman fam on the yard or having bad experiences with some particular chapter, etc. is no excuse.
My experiences have been particularly good...not always...but, I know when to dismiss the ignorant.
So, when I go to different yards or if I'm out and about...and I show love, I expect it in return. I may not receive it, but sometimes I do not receive it from other Deltas. It's unfortunately the name of the game. The way we do things in VA is also different than the way things are done other places.


OOO-OOP SORORS!

Coleman Love bruhs!

2PP98

Yeah, ya'll are A'IGHT, bruh...don't get highstrung, though. Not every bruh keeps it as real as you claim ya'll do.
I know there are some Deltas out there who hang with Kappas, etc. That's cool, b/c as black people we shouldn't discriminate. But, in terms of bonds we don't have one with Alphas, etc....that's my opinion (I'm right http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/smile.gif).
I would expect a bruh to help me out if I was in a predicament. I can count on some bruhs to do so. I always keep in mind, though...that there are some bruhs that I wouldn't count on spitting on me if I were on fire. That's life.
I don't think you need to tell us that there are times when Deltas don't speak to eachother. Simply because there are times when bruhs don't speak to eachother. I see exactly what you're saying, but it's all about where you're from. Unfortunately, not everyone has the same view of how we are to treat members of our own organization. That's the truth.


2PP98



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