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HannahXO 07-01-2011 09:50 PM

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Originally Posted by 33girl (Post 2067007)
I fail to see how it would be "weird" if you asked friends to contact one of their friends to pave the way for an introduction, and "not weird" to start up a conversation with a guy who you found through his fraternity's FB page. Which kind of proves my point, I guess.

I think this shows the difference between "friends" and "facebook friends in common." I'll be honest, I'm FB friends with people who I haven't talked with in real life or on FB for years, and in a lot of cases it would be weird for me to suddenly contact them...so why am I friends with them on FB? No idea! I periodically go through and delete people, a fair number of whom request me back shortly after.

Short version: facebook and other means of electronic communication and social networking have effed up my generation's social norms...yes, it is a bit weird. I still think the OP would be out of line to contact this gentleman directly, but I think it's important to clarify the whole facebook social interaction thing.

AlphaFrog 07-02-2011 09:37 AM

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Originally Posted by 33girl (Post 2067007)
I'm not bashing you personally, I'm bashing your whole generation. You just happen to be the representative of it today.

Here. \/\/

psusue 07-02-2011 09:50 AM

Excellent choice of quotes there, AlphaFrog. :)

AlphaFrog 07-02-2011 09:53 AM

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Originally Posted by psusue (Post 2067036)
Excellent choice of quotes there, AlphaFrog. :)

There are a few people around here that you can ALWAYS count on for great sig material. I'm proud to call one of them my sister!:D

knight_shadow 07-02-2011 11:18 AM

Heeeeey, I made it into a siggy Lol

33girl 07-02-2011 12:48 PM

I thought AF was making a pair of boobies there.

Hannah, I totally agree with you...but since he didn't specify, I surmised he meant actually real-life friends, not FB friends. Of course as Eric Cartman said girl friends are 3x better than boy friends.

pudz 07-09-2011 07:30 PM

Heres what you do. Go to one of their rush events, introduce yourself, ask questions and find the guy that went to your school and introduce yourself.
Or just mention to him that you found his "Fraternity" to be one of your first choices. No need to tell him about yourself, just ask questions and if hes not a douche, you'll receive a good reply.

AlphaFrog 07-09-2011 07:31 PM

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Originally Posted by 33girl (Post 2067059)
I thought AF was making a pair of boobies there.

http://www.google.com/url?source=img...IZnrGrq5F4l-MA

33girl 07-09-2011 10:41 PM

BEST BOOBIES EVER!!!!!!!!!!


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