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Re: Ladies, beware your perfect nice guy

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Originally posted by James
This has to do with the way they were raised or their early influences.

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Thats not even an "upgraded male unit", thats the floor model. The upgraded male units are verbally expressive, caring, romantic, emotionally available, and have other skills and facets that make them intrigueing partners.

In that case, while yes he was raised the basic unit way... I definitly found myself an upgraded unit... :P

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Originally posted by AchtungBaby80
It's these no-bra-wearing, door-opening feminisits who ruined it for the rest of us...men aren't raised to do nice stuff anymore and they act put out if you expect it.

Sorry, sometimes the mouth runs away with me...

Its true though! If you hadn't said it, chances are I would have.

I give all guys a chance and I have met very few of the basic male units. Guys nowadays think they don't have to do that stuff. They think women want to be treated the way they treat their buddies.

Unless a guy thinks I am just a friend (and that is clear as day) I expect to be treated better then he would treat himself. It usually only takes a first date to know what kind of guy your with and whether or not you consider him dateable. Just because I woudn't date guys based on their date etiquette doesn't mean I wouldn't consider them to be a friend. I also believe in treating someone as you want to be treated, so I practice that rule in dating myself.

based on what most of you said, I would be an awesome boyfriend....

thanks greekchat b-rods

Then you should start an etiquette school for men. The school of dating etiquette.... or clone yourself ;)