I talked to my big yesterday and she let me know that our adviser knows what happened, and I'm planning to talk to her (referring to the adviser, but I need to talk to my big) when the semester starts up again.

I think I got what I needed to hear, and thank you guys for all being supportive. Even to those of you who were harsher because it was stuff I, as I said, needed to hear.

I'm glad to hear it. :) Have a wonderful New Year, and let it be a year of you recovering and rebuilding.

ditto! Hugs to you luna.