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DubaiSis 01-02-2011 03:29 PM

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Originally Posted by amanda6035 (Post 2016040)
I'm going to finish paying off my car. I started Dave Ramsey's Total Money makeover in February 2009. We've paid off just over $36K in debt since then, and we're in the home stretch of the remaining $6K now....once thats done, all we'll have left is student loans and mortgage. :D

Congratulations! That's huge! We are maybe 2 years from out of a similar amount of debt without having to do too much belt tightening. It just takes focus.

Other than the every year stuff (weight, exercise, be happier), I'm going to complete my quilt this year. It's the biggest friggin thing you've ever seen (European King size 300cm X 300cm mattress, plus overhang) and I'm hand quilting it. It has a tendency to get set aside and not picked up for weeks at a time. No more! At least a couple hours every week should get me there.

PiKA2001 01-03-2011 04:39 PM

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Originally Posted by amanda6035 (Post 2016040)
I'm going to finish paying off my car. I started Dave Ramsey's Total Money makeover in February 2009. We've paid off just over $36K in debt since then, and we're in the home stretch of the remaining $6K now....once thats done, all we'll have left is student loans and mortgage. :D

I'm going to lose at least 20 pounds by May, when hubby and I plan to start trying to conceive. I have much more weight than that to lose, but my goal now is to get as healthy as possible so that hopefully, we will get pregnant quickly and have a safe, healthy pregnancy.

I'm going to dust off the daily devotional that I bought last year, that I never cracked open. :( Hopefully I can get with it this year....

I just bought his book the other day ( I've been listening to him on the radio for about a year so I KINDA know the program). I have about $25k of debt (all car) which I hope to pay off this year. After that beast is killed my goal is to put $1,000 a month into my savings account.

Drolefille 01-03-2011 11:38 PM

^^^ I've listened to him, but my inherent distrust of anyone on talk radio makes me question the whole thing. How useful IS his whole plan thing?

PiKA2001 01-03-2011 11:45 PM

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Originally Posted by Drolefille (Post 2016543)
^^^ I've listened to him, but my inherent distrust of anyone on talk radio makes me question the whole thing. How useful IS his whole plan thing?

VERY useful iF you follow it like you should. I thought it was total BS at first when people would call in and say how they payed off $40k in debt in two years making $50k a year but the more I dig in it seems more and more possible. It's all about living BELOW your means and simple common sense financial knowledge that people tend to ignore.

Drolefille 01-03-2011 11:48 PM

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Originally Posted by PiKA2001 (Post 2016549)
VERY useful iF you follow it like you should. I thought it was total BS at first when people would call in and say how they payed off $40k in debt in two years making $50k a year but the more I dig in it seems more and more possible. It's all about living BELOW your means and simple common sense financial knowledge that people tend to ignore.

Yeah that makes a lot of sense, and I know it requires a lot of work to do on the front end in controlling spending and dedicating the money to the debt.

Good to know it's NOT total bunk though. As I said the fact that it's on talk radio means it gives me red flags.

PiKA2001 01-03-2011 11:54 PM

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Originally Posted by Drolefille (Post 2016551)
Yeah that makes a lot of sense, and I know it requires a lot of work to do on the front end in controlling spending and dedicating the money to the debt.

Good to know it's NOT total bunk though. As I said the fact that it's on talk radio means it gives me red flags.

Why do you say that? Political talk shows aside all of the financial guys like Ramsey and Clark Howard seem pretty legit as well as Kim Komando (Tech help) and "America on the Road"(cars/automotive).

Drolefille 01-04-2011 12:02 AM

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Originally Posted by PiKA2001 (Post 2016555)
Why do you say that? Political talk shows aside all of the financial guys like Ramsey and Clark Howard seem pretty legit as well as Kim Komando (Tech help) and "America on the Road"(cars/automotive).

Kim Komando is generally accurate but is not a show for tech people but for very non-tech people. I wouldn't rely on her for advice myself, I go to better, primary sources. I don't listen to car shows except for catching Car Talk every now and then on NPR so no idea about America on the Road.

Any show where the host endorses products makes me less likely to trust their judgment, so that's a big part of it. It blurs the line between advertising and actual recommendations when someone whose job is to give advice "recommends" a product that is paying for their show.

Ramsey does that. I've never heard Howard. But it's a big thing in talk radio that annoys me and weakens the credibility.

Also when someone's selling themselves as a 'brand' that really works they're not exactly unbiased. I don't really know anyone who uses the method and hadn't gotten around to looking into it, so the only data point I have is himself and the people on his show, not an unbiased sample, ya know?

AGDee 01-04-2011 08:02 AM

It seems like all of those financial people say exactly the same thing. I haven't heard Ramsey say anything that Suze Ormann hasn't been saying for years. Don't use credit cards at all, pay as much as you can on them. Pay off the smallest first, then put the money you've been putting toward those small ones to the next one, etc. until they are all paid off. And, pay yourself first. It's all common sense stuff. It's easier said than done. You can choose to not give your kids $76 for high school yearbooks, but you can't tell them that you can't afford to pay for the ACT/SAT/PSAT or the Scholastic Art & Writing contest that they are entering. You can't NOT fix your broken car. I have paid off all of my debt many times over and then hit rough spots where it zooms back up again, like when you lose your child support and end up paying it instead. It will get paid off again, but not right now.

Drolefille 01-04-2011 11:54 AM

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Originally Posted by AGDee (Post 2016654)
It seems like all of those financial people say exactly the same thing. I haven't heard Ramsey say anything that Suze Ormann hasn't been saying for years. Don't use credit cards at all, pay as much as you can on them. Pay off the smallest first, then put the money you've been putting toward those small ones to the next one, etc. until they are all paid off. And, pay yourself first. It's all common sense stuff. It's easier said than done. You can choose to not give your kids $76 for high school yearbooks, but you can't tell them that you can't afford to pay for the ACT/SAT/PSAT or the Scholastic Art & Writing contest that they are entering. You can't NOT fix your broken car. I have paid off all of my debt many times over and then hit rough spots where it zooms back up again, like when you lose your child support and end up paying it instead. It will get paid off again, but not right now.

*nod* I know making an emergency fund is supposed to also be a priority, but for example my tuition this semester wiped out all of my savings for moving out. There's just not always a win.

Tulip86 01-04-2011 01:14 PM

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Originally Posted by Drolefille (Post 2016703)
*nod* I know making an emergency fund is supposed to also be a priority, but for example my tuition this semester wiped out all of my savings for moving out. There's just not always a win.

they just announced that my tuition for next year will be raised by 3000.. there goes my savings...

amanda6035 01-04-2011 02:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Drolefille (Post 2016543)
^^^ I've listened to him, but my inherent distrust of anyone on talk radio makes me question the whole thing. How useful IS his whole plan thing?

When you hear someone say they paid off $40K on a $50K income in a year....they SOLD something. Plain and simple. We have lived on approximatel 20-25K. We cut back drastically, but we arent starving, and we arent going without things that we need. We cut out crap like eating out alot, or nail salons, and extra cable channels and garbage like that. We cut our lifestyle back temporarily to get out of debt so that way we can do whatever we want when we have finally reached "financial peace."

I started Financial Peace University in Feb 2009. It took until AUGUST before we were FINALLY at a point where we could quit relying on the credit cards. We werent ever racking the debt up higher on them, but it was a cash flow issue - when paychecks came versus when bills were due and when groceries had to be bought. If I spent $200 on the card, I paid $200 or more to it. Finally, in August 2009, I was at at point where I didnt have to rely on them anymore. In February 2010, we paid off the last of that credit card debt and were down to a consolidation loan and a car loan, and now I'm workin on the car. As soon as I finish the car, I'll begin attacking student loan debt, which has been in deferrment. I just finished grad school last month.

I started blogging about my journey last January. Personal Finance is just that - personal, but I try to follow the plan as much as I can. It's been ALOT less stressful since I stopped dealing with credit cards. I was STUPID.

I recommend it. The plan works - if you will listen to it. Dave doesnt preach credit or FICO scores. He makes fun of people who "worship at the alter of the FICO" score. If you care about you "credit" then this plan is not for you. We lived better on one income (hubby was unemployed for over a year) by following this plan, than we were when we were making twice the income because all that extra money was slipping through our fingers.

amanda6035 01-04-2011 02:59 PM

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Originally Posted by AGDee (Post 2016654)
It seems like all of those financial people say exactly the same thing. I haven't heard Ramsey say anything that Suze Ormann hasn't been saying for years. Don't use credit cards at all, pay as much as you can on them. Pay off the smallest first, then put the money you've been putting toward those small ones to the next one, etc. until they are all paid off. And, pay yourself first. It's all common sense stuff. It's easier said than done. You can choose to not give your kids $76 for high school yearbooks, but you can't tell them that you can't afford to pay for the ACT/SAT/PSAT or the Scholastic Art & Writing contest that they are entering. You can't NOT fix your broken car. I have paid off all of my debt many times over and then hit rough spots where it zooms back up again, like when you lose your child support and end up paying it instead. It will get paid off again, but not right now.

What Suze Orman are YOU listening to? She worships credit cards, and she believes in math....pay off the highest interest first. Dave says pay the smallest balance first for a quick win, a quick victory, to gain momentum.

KSUViolet06 01-04-2011 04:16 PM

It seems like most financial peeps that folks are listening to/buying books about are saying things that are pretty common sense.

Ex: If you have $x/month coming in, you can't afford to spend $y. Have a savings account that is $x times 12 months. Don't get a credit card for $z if you only have $x coming in per month.

That's pretty standard/simple stuff.

BraveMaroon 01-04-2011 04:35 PM

I work just across the street from Dave Ramsey's studio/Financial Peace Plaza. Right next door to the Cracker Barrel.

I don't doubt his methods are credible, but I will tell you - the people who work there will tell you it's a miserable environment. We've had friends apply there who said that there isn't enough money in the world to take a job with Dave.

Apparently, on your last interview, you bring your spouse with you and the two of you disclose all your finances and budget. And ok - I get it - you want your employees drinking the Kool-Aid, but to me, that's creepy.

On the other hand being from ATL, I also know a handful of people who have worked with Clark Howard who'll tell you he's so tight he squeaks, but couldn't be a nicer guy.

PiKA2001 01-04-2011 05:56 PM

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Originally Posted by KSUViolet06 (Post 2016788)
It seems like most financial peeps that folks are listening to/buying books about are saying things that are pretty common sense.

Ex: If you have $x/month coming in, you can't afford to spend $y. Have a savings account that is $x times 12 months. Don't get a credit card for $z if you only have $x coming in per month.

That's pretty standard/simple stuff.

It is common sense, but most people just ignore it. Ramsey says gaining financial health and getting out of debt is 80% habit and only 20% knowledge.

AGDee 01-04-2011 07:54 PM

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Originally Posted by amanda6035 (Post 2016760)
What Suze Orman are YOU listening to? She worships credit cards, and she believes in math....pay off the highest interest first. Dave says pay the smallest balance first for a quick win, a quick victory, to gain momentum.

I haven't listened to her in a while but in the past, she said to pay off the smallest first, then apply the payments you were making to that card to the next smallest until it is paid off, then apply all of that to the next lowest balance, etc. I do know that she changed her philosophy a little bit and was saying that cash reserves were more important during the major credit crunch in 2008/09. I don't agree that she worships credit cards, but she does say that getting your FICO score in good shape is important and I do agree with that. You get better rates on mortgages and car loans if you have a really high FICO. That's hard to deny.

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Originally Posted by PiKA2001 (Post 2016826)
It is common sense, but most people just ignore it. Ramsey says gaining financial health and getting out of debt is 80% habit and only 20% knowledge.

I think the real key is to develop a plan built on common sense, market it well, and sell it to lots of people and using their money to pay off your own bills :)

I really can't imagine having as much credit card debt as I hear people say they paid off (outside of a mortgage and car loan anyway). There are definitely things I could give up if things were dire, like cable, netflix and unlimited data/text packages on cell phones. I could also quit grad school because I have definitely been paying tuition in lieu of paying off credit cards. In fact, all the tuition I paid last year is about equal to my total debt. However, that's going to have a big payoff in the end (hopefully sooner rather than later!). I consider the tuition an investment into my future financial security.

Cutting out stuff like eating out, getting nails done, vacations, movies, and buying just about anything for myself was done as soon I got divorced. When I travel now, it's very cheaply, somewhere I can stay for free (my dad's, friends' houses/houseboats, etc.). I also do things like use gift cards people gave me for Christmas to buy my kids' presents. It means more to me to give them a good Christmas than to have gifts of my own. That's a mom thing though.

ETA: Our Friday paycheck info will be posted some time this evening and I am obsessively checking the site to see how much lower the paycheck will be this year so I can work on the 2011 budget. This is making me nuts.

LucyKKG 01-04-2011 11:24 PM

I thought of several New Year's resolutions but limited myself to three.

1) Eat more veggies.
2) Drink more water.
3) Talk less, listen more.

I'm also trying to go to the gym and be more active.

FHwku 08-05-2011 07:46 AM

check in

knight_shadow 08-05-2011 07:52 AM

I didn't initially post in this thread, but I have been sticking to my resolution.

I have been hitting the gym 5 days a week (less for the past few weeks because of travel, but getting back on track). Several people have commented on my weight loss and I've been able to hook up with a lot of frat in the area who frequent the gym. Very motivating :)

Tulip86 08-05-2011 07:53 AM

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Originally Posted by Tulip86 (Post 2015097)
Losing a few pounds by working out on a regular basis. I don't need to lose weight, as my weight is healthy, but I feel better when just a few pounds lighter.

Finish graduate school and find a job.

Enjoy life more, relax to enjoy the moments that I'm doing nice things instead of being worried of what I should be doing.

Lost 2 pounds, and did start working a bit more. Not quite enough though :D

I'm working on my graduate thesis, so almost there!

ThetaPrincess24 08-20-2011 07:08 PM

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Originally Posted by ThetaPrincess24 (Post 2015165)
1) get back in shape (I had to give up my pilates & zumba classes in light of recent family deaths/surgeries and I gained back the inches I lost. I start back on Monday with three pilates classes per week, a weight workout class for women, yoga, & zumba)

2) declutter my house--over the next three-four months I hope to go room to room, closet to closet and get rid of unnecessary items and stuff that hasnt been used/worn in a year or more.

3) convince the hubby to declutter the garage

4) convince hubby it's a good idea to have a baby. I think I'll have better luck with the garage but I'm going to try anyway! :)

1) I've lost 20 pounds since April and dropped 3.5 sizes in clothes. Hopefully I'll have accomplished my "size" goal by the end of 2011.

2)After the holidays were over we went room to room, closet to closet, cabinets, drawers, etc. and got rid of a boat load of stuff. Our rule was if it hadnt been used in 2 years, toss it. I encourage all gift givers to stick to gift cards and no knicknacks as they will likely end up at Goodwill or the next garage sale.

3)Accomplished this last month and got rid of two dumpster loads of stuff and several trash cans.

4) Still working on this one. Almost had him convinced but then I had an unexpected diagnosis & surgery. I'm waiting for medical clearance.

FHwku 11-28-2011 03:39 PM

homestretch!

KSUViolet06 11-28-2011 04:20 PM

Forgot I posted in here.

Looks like both of the things I really wanted are happening (or have already happened.)

Wanted an assistantship or scholarship for school. Got it. Including one with an urban school district that I thought was a real longshot.

Looks like my 4.0 will happen as well.

Bonus: I got a sweet new job tutoring in special ed (and another sweet fun side gig planning events.)

This year was kind of awesome.

lovespink88 11-28-2011 04:44 PM

As expected, I did not quit biting my nails, lol

ThetaPrincess24 11-28-2011 05:23 PM

I can update mine.

1) I've dropped down to a size 4. I was size 12 when I started my weight loss journey in April. My goal size is 2. If i take things up a notch I just might reach that one. My thighs are why I'm not able to fit in size 2 pants/jeans. My waist is already there.

2) done

3) done

4) Still working on.

AGDee 11-28-2011 07:42 PM

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Originally Posted by AGDee (Post 2015781)
I don't really do resolutions per se, but I do have some goals that I hope to accomplish in 2011 including:

1) Passing the CISSP exam
2) Finding a job in IT security

I've been working on #2 with no results so far but I'm pretty confident that if I can achieve #1, then #2 will follow quickly. The biggest obstacle right now is finding $600 to pay for the CISSP exam .. within the next 3 weeks <sigh>. Otherwise, I have to wait until May to take it and I'll be in the middle of a class then, which would royally stink.

Um, Yay me!!! I took the exam, got the security job, then found out I passed the exam :) Yay me!!!! I did wait until May to take it and I took an extra term off of school that I didn't plan on but it all worked out!

FHwku 01-02-2012 07:49 PM

i finished something i've been working on for a year.

als463 01-02-2012 09:36 PM

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Originally Posted by ThetaPrincess24 (Post 2109035)
I can update mine.

1) I've dropped down to a size 4. I was size 12 when I started my weight loss journey in April. My goal size is 2. If i take things up a notch I just might reach that one. My thighs are why I'm not able to fit in size 2 pants/jeans. My waist is already there.

2) done

3) done

4) Still working on.


Wow! Congrats! That's awesome! If you don't mind me asking...how did you do it? What did you do?

whiteandblack 01-05-2012 05:59 PM

gained 20 lbs, so exercise.


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