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Other than the every year stuff (weight, exercise, be happier), I'm going to complete my quilt this year. It's the biggest friggin thing you've ever seen (European King size 300cm X 300cm mattress, plus overhang) and I'm hand quilting it. It has a tendency to get set aside and not picked up for weeks at a time. No more! At least a couple hours every week should get me there. |
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^^^ I've listened to him, but my inherent distrust of anyone on talk radio makes me question the whole thing. How useful IS his whole plan thing?
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Good to know it's NOT total bunk though. As I said the fact that it's on talk radio means it gives me red flags. |
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Any show where the host endorses products makes me less likely to trust their judgment, so that's a big part of it. It blurs the line between advertising and actual recommendations when someone whose job is to give advice "recommends" a product that is paying for their show. Ramsey does that. I've never heard Howard. But it's a big thing in talk radio that annoys me and weakens the credibility. Also when someone's selling themselves as a 'brand' that really works they're not exactly unbiased. I don't really know anyone who uses the method and hadn't gotten around to looking into it, so the only data point I have is himself and the people on his show, not an unbiased sample, ya know? |
It seems like all of those financial people say exactly the same thing. I haven't heard Ramsey say anything that Suze Ormann hasn't been saying for years. Don't use credit cards at all, pay as much as you can on them. Pay off the smallest first, then put the money you've been putting toward those small ones to the next one, etc. until they are all paid off. And, pay yourself first. It's all common sense stuff. It's easier said than done. You can choose to not give your kids $76 for high school yearbooks, but you can't tell them that you can't afford to pay for the ACT/SAT/PSAT or the Scholastic Art & Writing contest that they are entering. You can't NOT fix your broken car. I have paid off all of my debt many times over and then hit rough spots where it zooms back up again, like when you lose your child support and end up paying it instead. It will get paid off again, but not right now.
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I started Financial Peace University in Feb 2009. It took until AUGUST before we were FINALLY at a point where we could quit relying on the credit cards. We werent ever racking the debt up higher on them, but it was a cash flow issue - when paychecks came versus when bills were due and when groceries had to be bought. If I spent $200 on the card, I paid $200 or more to it. Finally, in August 2009, I was at at point where I didnt have to rely on them anymore. In February 2010, we paid off the last of that credit card debt and were down to a consolidation loan and a car loan, and now I'm workin on the car. As soon as I finish the car, I'll begin attacking student loan debt, which has been in deferrment. I just finished grad school last month. I started blogging about my journey last January. Personal Finance is just that - personal, but I try to follow the plan as much as I can. It's been ALOT less stressful since I stopped dealing with credit cards. I was STUPID. I recommend it. The plan works - if you will listen to it. Dave doesnt preach credit or FICO scores. He makes fun of people who "worship at the alter of the FICO" score. If you care about you "credit" then this plan is not for you. We lived better on one income (hubby was unemployed for over a year) by following this plan, than we were when we were making twice the income because all that extra money was slipping through our fingers. |
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It seems like most financial peeps that folks are listening to/buying books about are saying things that are pretty common sense.
Ex: If you have $x/month coming in, you can't afford to spend $y. Have a savings account that is $x times 12 months. Don't get a credit card for $z if you only have $x coming in per month. That's pretty standard/simple stuff. |
I work just across the street from Dave Ramsey's studio/Financial Peace Plaza. Right next door to the Cracker Barrel.
I don't doubt his methods are credible, but I will tell you - the people who work there will tell you it's a miserable environment. We've had friends apply there who said that there isn't enough money in the world to take a job with Dave. Apparently, on your last interview, you bring your spouse with you and the two of you disclose all your finances and budget. And ok - I get it - you want your employees drinking the Kool-Aid, but to me, that's creepy. On the other hand being from ATL, I also know a handful of people who have worked with Clark Howard who'll tell you he's so tight he squeaks, but couldn't be a nicer guy. |
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I really can't imagine having as much credit card debt as I hear people say they paid off (outside of a mortgage and car loan anyway). There are definitely things I could give up if things were dire, like cable, netflix and unlimited data/text packages on cell phones. I could also quit grad school because I have definitely been paying tuition in lieu of paying off credit cards. In fact, all the tuition I paid last year is about equal to my total debt. However, that's going to have a big payoff in the end (hopefully sooner rather than later!). I consider the tuition an investment into my future financial security. Cutting out stuff like eating out, getting nails done, vacations, movies, and buying just about anything for myself was done as soon I got divorced. When I travel now, it's very cheaply, somewhere I can stay for free (my dad's, friends' houses/houseboats, etc.). I also do things like use gift cards people gave me for Christmas to buy my kids' presents. It means more to me to give them a good Christmas than to have gifts of my own. That's a mom thing though. ETA: Our Friday paycheck info will be posted some time this evening and I am obsessively checking the site to see how much lower the paycheck will be this year so I can work on the 2011 budget. This is making me nuts. |
I thought of several New Year's resolutions but limited myself to three.
1) Eat more veggies. 2) Drink more water. 3) Talk less, listen more. I'm also trying to go to the gym and be more active. |
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I didn't initially post in this thread, but I have been sticking to my resolution.
I have been hitting the gym 5 days a week (less for the past few weeks because of travel, but getting back on track). Several people have commented on my weight loss and I've been able to hook up with a lot of frat in the area who frequent the gym. Very motivating :) |
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2)After the holidays were over we went room to room, closet to closet, cabinets, drawers, etc. and got rid of a boat load of stuff. Our rule was if it hadnt been used in 2 years, toss it. I encourage all gift givers to stick to gift cards and no knicknacks as they will likely end up at Goodwill or the next garage sale. 3)Accomplished this last month and got rid of two dumpster loads of stuff and several trash cans. 4) Still working on this one. Almost had him convinced but then I had an unexpected diagnosis & surgery. I'm waiting for medical clearance. |
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Forgot I posted in here.
Looks like both of the things I really wanted are happening (or have already happened.) Wanted an assistantship or scholarship for school. Got it. Including one with an urban school district that I thought was a real longshot. Looks like my 4.0 will happen as well. Bonus: I got a sweet new job tutoring in special ed (and another sweet fun side gig planning events.) This year was kind of awesome. |
As expected, I did not quit biting my nails, lol
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I can update mine.
1) I've dropped down to a size 4. I was size 12 when I started my weight loss journey in April. My goal size is 2. If i take things up a notch I just might reach that one. My thighs are why I'm not able to fit in size 2 pants/jeans. My waist is already there. 2) done 3) done 4) Still working on. |
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i finished something i've been working on for a year.
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Wow! Congrats! That's awesome! If you don't mind me asking...how did you do it? What did you do? |
gained 20 lbs, so exercise.
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