I know, I agree with this! My roomie (who was initiated last fall) wrote me a sweet letter last night that said that she knows my week has been not so hot and she cares about me. I guess I crave that bond that comes with time and I need to be a patient adpi! lol. Thanks ladies for supporting me and being here when I'm going through these rough times. Pi love and sisterhood, Katie

Btw, Katie, I think you have one of the cutest screen names I've yet seen!! I get all purry when I see it!!

aww, thanks! I love kitties! I want to get one when I get an apartment this summer but my bf says no way! (That's what he thinks, hehe.)

Katie,

this is the first time i've posted to this site, so i have no idea how to private message you or i would! i will go ahead and say that what really disturbs me about your original post is that you are getting no support - and in fact rejection - from your advisors. i am currently a chapter advisor and can assure you that in no way would a woman be held from initiation because of an eating disorder. in fact, your advisors should be at the top of your support list!

i'd like to talk to you more about it offlist, if you would like, but you'll have to help me with private messaging!

sounds like you are getting tons of love and support from your online sisters - that's what i love about this organization! we truly live for each other....

jwright25

jwright25, you are soooo right about the advisors.

Because of your comment "that's what i love about this organization! we truly live for each other" I assume you are a sister, if so WELCOME TO THE BOARD!!!!!!

To PM Katie you can just click on her GC name and it will take you to her information you can then chose to PM or Email her. Or you can just go to a post she has made in at the bottem (or is it om? sorry Blonde moment) click on PM.

Katie, you describe exactly what I'm going through. Not everyone is outgoing and instantly makes friends with the sisters. In my experience the more you feel this way the more you isolate yourself. It all pretty much boils down to self-esteem issues which you might want to talk to a professional about. I myself am doing it. Just remember that as an ADPi you are loved and have a network of sisters who care about you.