Exactly! I'm a member of the "reject" sorority at my school, and sometimes I really get fed up with people not wanting to have anything to do with us, or calling us freaks, just b/c we're new and small. What's even worse is when PNMs love us as girls but don't actually want to pledge b/c they don't actually want to be associated with the "loser" sorority.

Josh,

Congratulations. You've learned something new about life. You don't have to be beautiful to be a great person.

Lioness, Phi Mu didn't have a great reputation when I was at O.U., but all of the ones I ever met were wonderful people.