Our official terms are either "big brother" or "mentor." I'm not sure I've ever known of a chapter that used "mentor."

If suggesting someone think of people other than themselves is "castigating" them, just call me the Castigator!

And seeing as you had a whole herd of cows over someone suggesting housing options for a chapter - without bothering to ask (most likely because you didn't care or because it wasn't in your frame of reference) what the campus is like, all I can say is, pot, meet kettle.

Was/is pledge mom/pledge daughter a regional thing? I remember the first time I saw it in a chapter's write-up in our magazine and I was so confused.

Seeing as I served as our Fraternity Director of Housing and currently serve on the NPC Housing Committee, I think I know a little something about housing.

Oh, sillypie me. I didn't realize this was the "throw what you know part II" thread.

You are - so why can't someone else????

I guess that is my question. DBB is from the same campus as I am, and I wonder if her chapter used pledge mom, because I had never heard of big/little until I moved south. I don't care for the term "big" since that is code for "fat." I haven't heard of anybody using pledge mom anymore though. I'm sure it was hazing.

We always said Big Sister and Little Sister - never abbreviated it. Pledge Mom was the Pledge Trainer. But then this was back when dinos roamed the earth....

Big sister sounds so much better than Big!

Our official term is Carnation Sister. Both my older CS and my younger CSes are both CS. There's no big/little or older/younger distinction. I assumed other groups had gone the same way.

I don't think 33 was out of line to point out the "varies by campus" issue.


To the off topic discussion, we had a Pledge Mom and then you got a Heart Sis on Bid Day and a Big Sis a few weeks into pledging; then a Violet Sis during Initiation Week. Big Sis was shortened to "Big" in casual settings and Little Sis to Lil.

It wasn't till GC that I heard of AGDs practice of Mother/Daughter.

In my chapter, we always said Big Sis/ Lil Sis. I don't remember ever saying The entire word, sister, just sis. We signed things <3, ybs or <3, yls when making gifts or writing notes to our Big Sis/ Lil Sis.

Theta Phi Alpha uses Big Sister and Little Sister. We do not officially condone "Big" and "Little". That being said, I don't think I've ever heard anyone say the full title. I imagine it sounds too much like a biological relationship, rather than something unique to the Greek experience.

My line wouldn't die out my tree is the largest tree in our organization there are several branches left, I was just wondering if any one else chapters experienced a little getting a new big...

Thanks

My chapter of initiation did mothers and daughters until a few years ago when NHQ insisted they change to big sister and little sister which they SHOULD have done YEARS before that....