My people.....did anyone get the chance to see the Queen Latifah show this morning? Well, I have been getting calls about it from my girls all day. The topic was something like "How Can I Handle the Other Woman's Child?" Ok...so now there was this married couple on the show and the husband had fathered a child via an extramarital affair.

BTW, the wife and the tramp...uh...I mean other woman were both pregnant at the same time!

The wife has never seen the child or the other woman but she has spoken to her over the phone. They were going to meet face to face on the show for the first time (Whoa!) Anyway, the "man" (the cause of all this) just sat in the middle of the two women...cheesing like he had done something sooo wonderful (he seemed so proud of himself)...while the two women WENT AT IT.( Personally...I would have turned the show into the Jerry Springer Show cause I would have had to get in that *ss ...with the nasty way the other woman was talking) Now as if her husband did not cheat on her while she was pregnant WITHOUT A CONDOM...the wife sits there the entire time blaming the other woman (I know it's her fault just as well)...and saying, in effect, that despite the cheating...her husband is a good father, husband and provider. :confused

Excuse me?!?) The "man" then goes on to utter the statement, " If my daughter meets my wife and she (child) can not deal with her or doesn't like her...then I'll have to end this marriage" :mad

Excuse me ?!?) I was never so shocked in all my life! AND...the other woman reveals that her and the husband have long talks on the phone (only 20% of which is about the child) where he discusses the state of his marriage and how his wife is still tripping. (No he did not go there people!!) It also looks like, at the drop of a dime, if he would have her, the other woman will gladly take him. The husband also said...and I quote this fool, "If it weren't for the child...I would have taken this to my grave. My wife would have never known about the affair". To which someone then made the observation that he could be cheating right at this moment, he just hasn't been caught yet. The guy was sooo obnoxious! Anyway, I wanted to know how everyone feels about this...if you were in the wife's shoes what would you do? Remember, she has a young child too. I'll be the first to say I LOVE children...

I would marry a man with 10 kids if I really loved him

...but in this situation...I don't know what I would do/feel/say. Sorry this is so long, but the story really left me shocked and pissed off!