dzaigirl, I can't speak for all, you know how it is when it goes through the grapevine, but for two the info came directly from the mothers and 4 from the girls themselves as they have been over here through out the summer.
Transfer-big fish in little pond didn't like being one of a ton of fish in an ocean. (She really did choose for all the wrong reasons IMO)
Killarney-if you read this, this was one of those associations I spoke of on your thread.
Comes home too much-Misses HS and her on again off again boyfriend-lonely.
The other four. Well, lets just say that one just doesn't like the
formality of it all, she is a wild child (IN A FUN WAY) the other 3 are like a chain. One who never was cut out for it is deciding she made a mistake. Number 2 admits just doesn't feel comfortable and number 3 doesn't want to stay if the others go. However she is thinking if she gets a little sis it would make it better. (I don't think that is such a good idea for a NM, but keeping my mouth shut)
Maybe this was an impolite question, I don't know. Nothing scandalous just a fact that not everyone will want to do study hours, community or campus service. No reflecton on the sororities. The mother just wondered if it would be a reflection on OUR girls. THERE IS GOOD NEWS! One of my daughters friends signed up to rush as a Sophomore at A&M!!! They had a long talk and she is realy excited! We just hope she doesn't get all nervous and change her mind.
edited to clarify-no rush infraction here
Unless pointing out in early summer,all the good reason TO go through with an AXO DG and her Mom a KD present counts as an infraction.