I think I would adopt. There are so many children out there that need a good family as well as the love/attention. It is so unfortunate that there are people out there that adopt or foster children just for money and don't give a hoot , don't pollute about the children!
I am so tired of hearing about child molestation/abuse. There are a great amount of foster parents out there that just do it for the money, not for the well-being of the child.
Personally, I would like to adopt a child as well as have 2-3 of my own. My fiance doesn't want to adopt because he believes the child will grow up asking too many questions that we may not have the answers to. I told him not to worry, and to leave that all up to God. The child will grow to love you and truly appreciate what you did for him/her. Questions will come indeed, but we would just have to do the best we could and raise the child in a loving environment.
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