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Old 04-30-2024, 12:49 PM
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What do you feel like saying, right now?

Lol @ John in the introduction thread explaining how GC was once off the chain and why folks bounced. I’m messin with you, John Lol.
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Old 04-30-2024, 03:20 PM
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Lol @ John in the introduction thread explaining how GC was once off the chain and why folks bounced. I’m messin with you, John Lol.
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Old 04-30-2024, 07:15 PM
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That’s all I’ve been doing with my free time is watching the NBA finals. Y’all just might win it all. Minnesota’s defense is on point. Defensive teams always dominate.
Yep! Did you see how close last night’s game was?
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Lol @ John in the introduction thread explaining how GC was once off the chain and why folks bounced. I’m messin with you, John Lol.
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John should make it half and half. Half the board for sororities and fraternities and the other half for ethnic Greeks. It’d be really busy then. I’m kidding.
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Old 04-30-2024, 09:59 PM
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The Sixers are still alive, lol.
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Old 04-30-2024, 10:55 PM
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Yep! Did you see how close last night’s game was?

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John should make it half and half. Half the board for sororities and fraternities and the other half for ethnic Greeks. It’d be really busy then. I’m kidding.
Yeah, I saw it.

Lmao @ you trying to get your peeps over here.

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The Sixers are still alive, lol.
You watching the Pacers - Bucks game?
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Old 05-01-2024, 04:25 PM
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What’s up with all these college protests? Damn!
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Old 05-01-2024, 07:11 PM
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You watching the Pacers - Bucks game?
I watched it until halftime, then went to bed.
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Old 05-02-2024, 07:02 PM
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You’re nosy. But I am too, lol. Yep, he’s got one from his second marriage.

Yes, of course. I’m always taking about my hubby and kids. I’ve seen quite a few people from college and high school. I have another classmate from undergrad whose dog is a patient of mine. It’s a very small world.
Lmao, I was about to say, I know you ain’t talking about me being nosy. You are nosy as hell. I’m glad you admitted it. Speaking of nosy, did you ask him why he got divorced twice? 30 minutes is enough time to ask him that, CG Lol. Was he your high school boyfriend at the time? I’m assuming, since you were a cheerleader and he played football.

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My prom date is the whole reason I went Greek. He was a year older than me and pledged TKE when I was a senior in high school. He took me to my prom and then I went to the same school. I hung out with him and his roommate (one of my best friends from college who also pledged TKE) all the time and was bummed out that I couldn't go to the greek nights at the bar or greek happy hours at the bar with them.

So second semester of my freshman year, I decided to rush so I could be part of all the fun. I had met friends of theirs from one of the sororities and I couldn't stand one of them so I didn't even go to their rush events. One sorority was pretty much non-existant- I think they had 5 members, so that one was out. That left two- AGD and another. I went to parties at both and the women at the other one never even spoke to me. Nobody picked me up at the door in rotations and I wandered around by myself the whole time. So I ended up pledging AGD.

He broke up with me the next fall and I met my first husband, a LXA, a few weeks later.

I'm facebook friends with the old prom date. He's the only ex boyfriend I've ever had who I would consider getting back together again. I still think he's really cute, 40 years later. I enjoy his sense of humor so much. He lives a couple hours away though. He was definitely my first love.
That’s an interesting story. I thought you were hollering at a new dude? Unless that’s the same dude.
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Old 05-02-2024, 08:10 PM
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My prom date is the whole reason I went Greek. He was a year older than me and pledged TKE when I was a senior in high school. He took me to my prom and then I went to the same school. I hung out with him and his roommate (one of my best friends from college who also pledged TKE) all the time and was bummed out that I couldn't go to the greek nights at the bar or greek happy hours at the bar with them.

So second semester of my freshman year, I decided to rush so I could be part of all the fun. I had met friends of theirs from one of the sororities and I couldn't stand one of them so I didn't even go to their rush events. One sorority was pretty much non-existant- I think they had 5 members, so that one was out. That left two- AGD and another. I went to parties at both and the women at the other one never even spoke to me. Nobody picked me up at the door in rotations and I wandered around by myself the whole time. So I ended up pledging AGD.

He broke up with me the next fall and I met my first husband, a LXA, a few weeks later.

I'm facebook friends with the old prom date. He's the only ex boyfriend I've ever had who I would consider getting back together again. I still think he's really cute, 40 years later. I enjoy his sense of humor so much. He lives a couple hours away though. He was definitely my first love.
What was his reason for breaking up with you?

He’s only a couple of hours away? You should go for it, Dee! Do it! Do it! Do it! lol.
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Lmao, I was about to say, I know you ain’t talking about me being nosy. You are nosy as hell. I’m glad you admitted it. Speaking of nosy, did you ask him why he got divorced twice? 30 minutes is enough time to ask him that, CG Lol. Was he your high school boyfriend at the time? I’m assuming, since you were a cheerleader and he played football.
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No, I didn’t ask him that. But I SO wanted to, lol.

Yep. But he was my boyfriend for like 5 days? Then, I broke up with him. 🫤
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Old 05-02-2024, 10:20 PM
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Yep. But he was my boyfriend for like 5 days? Then, I broke up with him. 🫤
Lol!!! Wtf? You dumped that dude in 5 days? Why? Why’d you even get in a relationship with him if you knew you were going to dump him? CG, I can tell you were the girl a lot of dudes wanted to be with, and when some dude got in a relationship with you, you’d dump him because you could. I hated chicks like you in high school and college Lol! You were that girl who never knew what she wanted - wishy washy as hell.

What’d he say when you did that shit after 5 days? You are a trip, CG. Lol
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Old 05-02-2024, 11:26 PM
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I was pretty much forced to go to my high school prom. That was a “why?” moment for me. Being there made zero sense, to me. Didn’t even ask the girl to dance.
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Old 05-03-2024, 01:04 AM
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I was pretty much forced to go to my high school prom. That was a “why?” moment for me. Being there made zero sense, to me. Didn’t even ask the girl to dance.
Lol! This prom topic has got me over here cracking up. How can anybody force you to go to prom? Why didn’t you want to go? I hear you on the dancing. Unless it’s a slow cut, I’m not dancing.
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Old 05-03-2024, 08:11 PM
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Lol!!! Wtf? You dumped that dude in 5 days? Why? Why’d you even get in a relationship with him if you knew you were going to dump him? CG, I can tell you were the girl a lot of dudes wanted to be with, and when some dude got in a relationship with you, you’d dump him because you could. I hated chicks like you in high school and college Lol! You were that girl who never knew what she wanted - wishy washy as hell.

What’d he say when you did that shit after 5 days? You are a trip, CG. Lol
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Omg, that was like 25 years ago! I was like 15/16 then? So, I don’t remember what he said.
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Old 05-03-2024, 08:16 PM
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WIFLSRN: So, going back to the conversation you guys were having about P Diddy on here, there’s a really good documentary about him on Tubi. I’m watching it now. It’s SO good. They’re making it seem like so many powerful people were involved in his shenanigans.
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Old 05-04-2024, 10:31 AM
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That’s an interesting story. I thought you were hollering at a new dude? Unless that’s the same dude.
Not the same dude- this other guy is in Atlanta and we're talking daily but there are barriers to overcome. We've been talking about how we would manage things - summers in Michigan, winters in the warm place of his choice, if we end up together. We just spent 3 hours on the phone this morning. I could talk to him forever. It's always hard to hang up the phone. We are texting late into the night too- both of us having a hard time saying goodnight. We met 24 years ago. He's the only person who really knows me to my core- good, bad, ugly. He's everything I've ever wanted in a partner. A fit cognitively, spiritually and physically. I'll be connected to him in a very deep way whether we ever end up truly together or not. For the first 14 years, I thought we'd end up together at this stage of life. Then for the last 10 years, I thought there was no way it would happen. Very soon, we will both be in a position where we can possibly be together. We've been waiting a long time.

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What was his reason for breaking up with you?

He’s only a couple of hours away? You should go for it, Dee! Do it! Do it! Do it! lol.
I was pretty insecure, clingy and jealous back then. I was so afraid of losing him. I think he felt too young to be that tied down too. He wanted to date other people and he dated someone else and then came back. Then a month later he wanted to date other people again. I was 19 and he was 20 so I get it. He will talk about how head over heels he was for me and how he has never been in a longa distance thing again because of how difficult it was for us to be apart during the summers. I might suggest we meet for lunch sometime when I'm on that side of the state again and see how it goes. He's close to Lake Michigan, where my future daughter in law is from. He lives in the town where she went to high school.

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