Where to start?
a. kddani is ABSOLUTELY right--it's a BIG no-no to come here asking for recs. We don't know you! You could be cool as hell, but you could be a psycho-killer, and we can't vouch either way. She's right about not picking favorites, too. What are you even basing that on? I mean, Chi O's got a beautiful website and I respect them very much based on the sisters that I've met, but you have to meet the chapter.
b. This one's a pet peeve and grinds my gears. One female: alumna. Two females: alumnae. One male: alumnus. Two males or a mixed group of males and females: alumni.
c. Do a search. There's tons of great advice already here.
d. Sororities are HUGE, and you never know who might be a member. Have you talked to family, teachers, friends' parents, and church members? Maybe someone who can ACTUALLY vouch for you could write you that rec.
Good luck.
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