honestly, central SE is probably one of the worst parts of town, general rule of thumb is to stay away from pretty much anything in SE albuquerque, unless you are by the airport. there are several hotels on san pedro & louisiana blvds which are probably only about a 10 minute drive from tingley, and anything near the airport is also about a 10-15 minute drive.
while you're in town definately try to make it to the frontier restaurant, its right across from UNM and its a late night staple(open 24-hrs)
if you are looking to go out drinking too after the concert or whatever, let me know and i can tell you the good places to go
hope this helps!