Physical cheating vs. mental cheating

AsianMoon · #1 08-23-2000, 02:38 AM

I have an interesting question for ya'll. Say your man or women felt guilty and decided to come clean with a confession. Would it hurt you more if:
a)They said that they had slept w/ someone else but it was a one time thing and the person didn't mean anything to them. It was just sex, no feelings attached.
or
b)They hadn't cheated physically but they thought that they were in love with someone else?
Of course no one would want either to happen but what do you think would hurt you more? The physical act or the mental act? Hmmmmm.

Sexy Mocha · #2 08-23-2000, 11:13 AM

Girl, it's me again

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Ok, I would DEFINITELY be more hurt if my man told me he were in love with another woman. That's some deep sh*t girl!Choice A would anger me

...but it wouldn't hurt me, especially if the incident was explained to me exactly how you worded it.

Resplendent_Maria · #3 08-23-2000, 04:57 PM

I agree with you, Mocha
If my man told me he had a physical fling with some girl, it would make me very heated. But if he said he was in love? That's too deep and would probably break my heart.

MissDiamond · #4 08-23-2000, 05:38 PM

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Originally posted by Resplendent_Maria:
I agree with you, Mocha
If my man, told me he had a physical fling with some girl, it would make me very heated. But if he said he was in love? That's too deep and would probably break my heart.

Girl,if my man (If I had one) came to me with some non-sense about him being in love with another woman I'd have to put my foot SO far up his black *ss.............

[This message has been edited by MissDiamond (edited August 23, 2000).]

AsianMoon · #5 08-23-2000, 06:02 PM

Sexy Mocha....ok, we finally agree on something! I agree with everyone on this one. My heart would be SO broken if he told me he was in love w/ someone else. Men are much better at seperating their feelings from "physical needs". I'm sure we have all been in a physical relationship where we knew it was all about the sex but we, as the women, caught feelings and wanted more (stop me when I lie!) so it wouldn't be hard for me to believe that there were no feelings attached on his part. But if he told me he was in love? Somebody hold me back!

Sexy Mocha · #6 08-23-2000, 06:45 PM

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Originally posted by AsianMoon:
(stop me when I lie!)
Girl, you have never lied!!
Somebody hold me back![/B]

Hold you back? Girl, I'd help you!!!