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03-28-2007, 04:55 PM
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Boyfriend Seminar
To the guys:
What is it about girls, dating, girlfriends, or anything else related to being a boyfriend that you have questions about?
To the girls:
What are a few things that you wish the guys you're dating knew?
Last edited by jessicaelaine; 03-28-2007 at 06:37 PM.
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03-28-2007, 05:13 PM
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1. I think a relationship seminar makes more sense than a boyfriend seminar. I know you're basing it off of a book but a general message might be better than just pinpointing the guys.
Maybe some stuff about how respecting and loving yourself better allows you to respect and love someone else. Stuff about balancing a relationship with being a college student. Communication, dating on a budget, and stuff like that.
2. Geesh...as an undergrad, what was my take on relationships? I don't remember. I know it was nothing like it is now. So I won't impose my viewpoints of relationships on a group of 18-22 yr olds. 
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03-28-2007, 05:33 PM
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Are you guys even qualified to do something like this?
If I were a student on your campus and needed boyfriend/relationship advice, I'd seek a professional, sorry.
Just because you have a book doesn't necessarily = expert.
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03-28-2007, 06:09 PM
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Originally Posted by OTW
Are you guys even qualified to do something like this?
If I were a student on your campus and needed boyfriend/relationship advice, I'd seek a professional, sorry.
Just because you have a book doesn't necessarily = expert.
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we're girls and we know what we like in boyfriends. i think that qualifies us. i must have missed the place where i claimed to have a PhD in psychology.
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03-28-2007, 06:19 PM
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Originally Posted by jessicaelaine
i must have missed the place where i claimed to have a PhD in psychology.
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That's right, you don't.
I just find it hard to believe how anyone would want to take relationship advice from a bunch of young college girls just because they read a book and they think they know what they want in boyfriends.
Oh yeah. I'm sure people will be signing up by the boatloads.
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03-28-2007, 06:24 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by jessicaelaine
we're girls and we know what we like in boyfriends. i think that qualifies us. i must have missed the place where i claimed to have a PhD in psychology.
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You're sponsoring a program, though.
Are you all going to have a panel or will it be a free-for-all discussion of relationships?
If you're having structure like a panel, then you will need more than some book to get people to care.
If it's a free-for-all, why should anyone attend your program if they can get the book on their own and talk to their friends about it?
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03-28-2007, 06:25 PM
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"He's Just Not That Into You"
This guy did a pretty good job with little or no credentials! LOL
http://www.gregbehrendt.com/splash.php
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03-28-2007, 06:29 PM
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Like I said, it's all how they structure and advertise it.
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03-28-2007, 06:34 PM
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I think if they approach it from a "let's talk about the difference between the sexes", invited at least a fraternity to come, held it some place where people could get comfortable and served chips/pizza it could be a fun event for people to share their ideas.
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03-28-2007, 06:36 PM
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Jessica Elaine?
Are you 86 years old? 
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03-28-2007, 06:41 PM
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ok. i changed the original post so that you people can focus just on what i was asking and wanted. that first sentence must have confused you.
this is not my event and no matter what you say, unless it is responding to those questions up there are not going to get to the girl that's planning it. you can tell me i'm not qualified all you want, it's not going to change anything. Nor is it going to hurt or harm you so i don't know why you're making such a big deal about it. calm down.
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03-28-2007, 06:43 PM
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Jessica Elaine?
Are you 86 years old? |
no, just apathetic to having an original name
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03-28-2007, 06:44 PM
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WAH.
Then this thread needs to be moved to D&R since all the threads in there are lame anyway, with the exception of Dionysus' Pegging thread.
You'll have the same three people in there giving you advice. Have fun.
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03-28-2007, 06:44 PM
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Originally Posted by jessicaelaine
ok. i changed the original post so that you people can focus just on what i was asking and wanted. that first sentence must have confused you.
this is not my event and no matter what you say, unless it is responding to those questions up there are not going to get to the girl that's planning it. you can tell me i'm not qualified all you want, it's not going to change anything. Nor is it going to hurt or harm you so i don't know why you're making such a big deal about it. calm down.
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Testy testy. 
You're more excited than anyone else.
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03-28-2007, 06:46 PM
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And if this isn't your event, you need to let someone else worry about it.
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