Christmas without someone =(

AGDGirl · #1 12-09-2003, 07:35 PM

It's my first christmas without a man...Christmas is the worst time to be single cause its so cold and I love to........ *Snuggle*..........Anyone wanna come to Alabama and be my snuggle buddy

AGDGirl · #2 12-09-2003, 07:55 PM

=( prob not

SmartBlondeGPhB · #3 12-09-2003, 07:56 PM

Look on the bright side...............

One less gift to buy.

And yes, I've been single for more than a few Chritmas's and am again this year.

Cluey · #4 12-09-2003, 08:03 PM

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Originally posted by SmartBlondeGPhB
Look on the bright side...............

One less gift to buy.

And yes, I've been single for more than a few Chritmas's and am again this year.

Ditto!

The first year is the worst, but you'll get through it

AGDGirl · #5 12-09-2003, 08:03 PM

I love buying gifts.

ThetaPrincess24 · #6 12-09-2003, 08:05 PM

being single at christmas sucks but tis' nto so bad. Keep yourself occupied and surrounded by family and friends.......or if you get lonely do what i do sometimes, bake xmas cookies and kentucky bourbon chocolate brownies for the neighbors

or call up friends that you havent talked to in a while.......read a book, start a journal, learn a craft, etc

If you are occupied and thinkign of other things, then you dont think about being lonely and manless. I'm finding that it's working rather well for me this year

#7 12-09-2003, 08:07 PM

Single now (but hopefully not for long!) for the past 2 Christmases and I'm doing just fine.

Hopefully the boy will make up his mind by December 25th. If not, Christmas will still be special anyway. I've got the bestest friends in the whole world.

SmartBlondeGPhB · #8 12-09-2003, 08:10 PM

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Originally posted by Hootie
Then spend the money you were going to on a stupid boy and buy toys for children who won't be getting any presents otherwise.

Very good idea!

ThetaPrincess24 · #9 12-09-2003, 08:11 PM

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Originally posted by Hootie
Then spend the money you were going to on a stupid boy and buy toys for children who won't be getting any presents otherwise.

this is an excellent idea and one i try to do every year at xmas time through toys for tots........i feel so good about myself after doing it too. I only wish i could see the faces of the children.

Another way to do it is the by way of giving trees. In fact you can pool money together with friends or even your sorority chapter and buy one big gift that is on someone's list (usually it's an older child or teen).

You can also use that money for other things by buying needed supplies to the local humane society in your area(cat food, dog food, bedding, blankets, pet toys, cat litter etc). Or buying and donating canned goods to a soup kitchen or God's Pantry.

Rudey · #10 12-09-2003, 08:14 PM

I feel bad for all the desperate women out there.

-Rudey

Cluey · #11 12-09-2003, 08:19 PM

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Originally posted by Hootie
Then spend the money you were going to on a stupid boy and buy toys for children who won't be getting any presents otherwise.

I do this, too! I collect a lot of different items and box them all up for Operation Christmas Child. It's a Christian mission headed by Franklin Graham, which allows children in third world countries to experience the joy of Christmas.

That was a great idea to share with everyone

ThetaGrrl · #12 12-10-2003, 06:04 PM

I'm lucky, because my fiance is flying home for Christmas, but he leaves for Japan (he's stationed there) the day after. I think the day after Christmas is maybe the worst day of the whole year, and this year, it's going to be even worse. I hate even thinking about it.

AGDGirl · #13 12-10-2003, 06:16 PM

AWWW! I'm so sorry!

swissmiss04 · #14 12-10-2003, 07:10 PM

I haven't had a single Xmas since high school. Not that that's a good thing. This is, however, my first Christmas away from my family. I am sort of sad about it.

James · #15 12-24-2003, 02:28 AM

Get over it ladies? Seriously. You never see boys whining about being alone at holidays . . oh wait . Thats because we don't have to deal with being the prize show pony at the family function you dragged us to as well as the gifts we had to shower onto you lol .. .

Holidays don't work for the BF. Its a chick thing.