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04-06-2012, 12:27 AM
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How does someone who wants to be a member talk to the current members?
Do you have any advice for when I see them around campus? Should I make small talk or compliment them? I don't want to seem desperate. I'm worried that I might have ruined my chances. I saw three of them sitting in the student center and I sat at the seat across from them waiting for my friend. I didn't say anything. I was so nervous! I didn't think they would remember me.
They looked busy and I didn't want to interrupt their convo. I just introduced myself at the tea party. I don't really know them. I hope they don't think I'm stuck up. Honestly, I was too afraid to go up and talk with them and I didn't know what to say. Should I have said something? There is a skee week next week. I'm going to try and talk to them then. I hope they forget this situation.
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04-06-2012, 12:33 AM
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Oh my goodness.
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04-06-2012, 06:58 PM
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FYI: she is interested in an NPHC org. Whole different recruitment structure than formal NPC orgs.
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04-06-2012, 10:05 PM
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oh lawd...
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04-09-2012, 10:06 PM
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~sigh~ Oh dear ...  Before I pass judgement on anyone, ... Was I like this before I made it to AKA Land? I can't even remember anymore. Especially since today is my AKAversary! I'm 12-years-old today! 
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04-09-2012, 10:16 PM
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OK... I am going to give an answer. Just be yourself. G o to events and participate in community service because you actually want to, not just because you want to be a member. Learn as much as you can, be humble, pray on it, do not feel entitled, and do not be annoying. Be cool, calm and collected. I would not ask questions like this on a site, you seem... well "thirsty". 
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04-09-2012, 10:17 PM
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Originally Posted by nenelee18
Do you have any advice for when I see them around campus? Should I make small talk or compliment them? I don't want to seem desperate. I'm worried that I might have ruined my chances. I saw three of them sitting in the student center and I sat at the seat across from them waiting for my friend. I didn't say anything. I was so nervous! I didn't think they would remember me.
They looked busy and I didn't want to interrupt their convo. I just introduced myself at the tea party. I don't really know them. I hope they don't think I'm stuck up. Honestly, I was too afraid to go up and talk with them and I didn't know what to say. Should I have said something? There is a skee week next week. I'm going to try and talk to them then. I hope they forget this situation.
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Originally Posted by Xidelt
FYI: she is interested in an NPHC org. Whole different recruitment structure than formal NPC orgs.
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Which is why she put this in the AKA forum.
Happy AKAversary (I can't believe I typed that), LikeASista.
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04-09-2012, 10:28 PM
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Happy AKAversary!!!
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04-09-2012, 11:05 PM
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Which is why she put this in the AKA forum.
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There were several other posts that have since been deleted. Xidelt's response was for one of those.
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04-09-2012, 11:17 PM
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Oh yeah, this is the thread where that person started giving recruitment advice.
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04-10-2012, 12:24 AM
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Happy AKAversary!!!
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Happy AKAversary (I can't believe I typed that), LikeASista.
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Thank you, soror and sister-soror!! Why you hatin', Doc?! You know you LOVE us and all our AKA-lisms!
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04-13-2012, 12:18 AM
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Originally Posted by LikeASista
~sigh~ Oh dear ... Before I pass judgement on anyone, ... Was I like this before I made it to AKA Land? I can't even remember anymore. Especially since today is my AKAversary! I'm 12-years-old today! |
Happy belated AKAversary LikeASista!
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04-13-2012, 03:14 AM
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Happy belated AKAversary LikeASista!
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Thank you kindly, sister-soror!! 
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04-15-2012, 02:03 PM
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Originally Posted by LikeASista
~sigh~ Oh dear ... Before I pass judgement on anyone, ... Was I like this before I made it to AKA Land? I can't even remember anymore. Especially since today is my AKAversary! I'm 12-years-old today! |
Happy AKAversary Soror (belated). You know how mesmerizing that pink and green can be.
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04-15-2012, 09:14 PM
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Happy AKAversary Soror (belated). You know how mesmerizing that pink and green can be. |
Isn't it, though? And such a serious, SERIOUS matter! And thank you kindly, soror. Better belated than not at all. 
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