Girl, I don't think that I am preparing myself for Mr. Right. I am preparing myself for MYSELF. Once I am cool with me, then I'll be able to handle all that comes my way.
But, I am preparing myself to meet someone by trying to make some adjustments within myself. I am working on my attitude and all sorts of things that may me me seem "off limits" to people that meet me. I am also working on getting in shape. I thought to myself, "How can I always preach about men should love you for who you are when you don't even give an overweight guy the time of day?" Therefore, I want to get in shape and feel better about MYSELF.
I can rant all day, but that's the basics.