Greetings Brothers and Sorors,
Having read the posts that both of you (in addition to the sorors) have written, I must say that you both make very valid points.
Before, I go any further let me first say that I was "made" by a graduate chapter. Unlike most of those on this post, I did not have an opportunity to come in at my alma mater.
Be that as it may, my feelings are that undergraduate chapters should NOT be done away with. I am of the opinion that the undergraduate chapters are the lifeblood of our GREAT organization. Truthfully, without those undergraduate chapters, our organizations would crumble for sure!!! I mean, graduate chapters do not have people beating their doors down to get in!!! In my case, I knew I wanted to be a Sigma, so when I graduated I seeked out a graduate chapter in my area. Would I have done this if I had not at least been exposed to Sigma as an undergrad? Probably not!! Why would I have done that? Had there not been a a undergraduate chapter at my campus (albeit suspended for 5 years), I would NEVER have known about this great organization. In short, I don't think our undergraduate chapters should be done away with.
With regard to the graduate chapters and their roles in the lives of undergraduates, I feel like graduate chapters are good intentioned individuals. I don't feel like these brothers are there to harm anyone or change anyone's traditions (yall know what I'm talking about). I do feel that graduate chapters should be more vigilant in their monitoring of undergraduate chapters' activities. I don't mean they should breath down their necks, but I feel like the undergraduates should at least know that the graduate chapters have their eyes on them (not because they're looking for trouble but because they are genuinely interested in how the brothers are doing).
On the other side of the coin, the graduate chapters have an uphill battle to fight with the undergraduate chapters they "oversee". Someone on Zeta post stated something to the effect of "undergraduates simply look for the graduate chapter or advisor for money for the service projects and also they make sure to keep the time when the boys (or girls) really go on to themselves." That statement was not exact, but it was close. How are graduate chapters supposed to work in unison with undergraduates when those are the feelings held by SOME and perpetuated by MANY? (It only takes one DP to tell a line this and a majority of that line will probably go out and perpetuate the feeling.)
It honestly all goes back to what is being taught at the undergraduate level. Of course, I don't know this first hand, but having spoke to some of the frat from many undergrad institutions, I have learned that when they were on line, they learned alot of negative stuff about graduate chapters, the brothers in them, and the brothers who came in through them. These same brothers who told me this went on to tell me that it was not until they had been in the frat for many years (usually around 4), that they realized that it was not all about how you came in nor about the graduate chpater coming in there to "wreck shop". They realized that it was all about the work.
Truth be told, it does not matter who does the work. The most important thing is the work!!!!!!! (Don't get me wrong. I am all for the PROCESS.)
Also, financial backing of undergraduate chapters is an objective of some graduate chapters along with the mentoring of these younger brothers. BUT, do you think that our graduate brothers are going to dump money into chapters who are not even producing at any level? Would you propose backing undergraduate chapters or brothers who only contact you when they need something? Finally would you financially support anyone who has antagonistic feeling toward you and your goals. I would certainly hope not!! These are some of the things that graduate chapters encounter when dealing with undergraduates. For the most part, the graduate brothers who came in through the undergraduate chapters have not forgotten what it was like to have a treasury that had nothing in it two weeks before Sigma Week or to only have two brothers on the yard for homecoming who want to do stuff but cannot physically do a lot of what they want because they don't have money and/or the manpower. These brothers have not forgotten. They see it everyday in their own chapters. (Graduate chapters need fundraisers also.)
Anyway, I have written way too much.
To recap, undergraduate chapters should not be done away with.
Undergraduate "prospects" need to be properly taught about the goals and objectives of our frat and HOW the FRAT achieves them. (Our undergraduates should not be taught that "if you don't "pledge" you are respectable.) They should be taught that work will always speak for itself.
Additionally, graduate chapters should work more diligently with the undergraduates under their jurisdiction. Only through work and interaction can the divide between us be made smaller. (Of course it will never be closed because there are some who will not change no matter what.)
Holla at me Frat and sorors
Last edited by Six_Three_Sigma; 03-19-2002 at 03:00 PM.
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