Family or close friends asking about sorority sercets?

[AlwaysDivine]

Has anyone ever had a problem with family, friends, significat others, husbands, etc. asking about sorority secrets? What happpened?

[AKAtude]

Fortunately my family, friends, and fiance have never asked me about any "sorority secrets".

[This message has been edited by AKAtude (edited August 09, 2000).]

[Anydaynow]

I really don't see what the big deal is...if someone wants to know AKA business/secrets...just tell them that membership has its privilages. I don't care if it is my own mother I will just tell her like it is....It's none of her business (of course in a nice way ).

If they respect you they will have enough respect not to ask member only questions.

[LadyAKA]

So far I have not had a problem like this, but my family knows a lot because I am not the first Greek in the fam ... not that they know secrets but they know enough; especially the times I needed help while on line - they could read my face, no need to ask questions. I am with Anydaynow, if they respect you then you should not have to worry about it.

[deja]

Yes, Yes, my niece!!!!

She is a rising junior at the Univ. of South Carolina.......She tried it once, and let's just say she won't ask again. And hey, I love that girl! So you know what I am saying!