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04-08-2008, 11:45 PM
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I need someone's opinion/advice
Ok my friend is finally interested in a girl after going through a rough time for the last few months but I don't think she is right for him. This girl has a boyfriend but after being with him for only two days she was cheating on him with my friend. My friend is a really good guy and he is the type who is interested in more than just random hook-ups so I think maybe he should try to move on a focus on a girl who seems to have more relationship potential. So my question is this: Should I talk to my friend about this or just mind my own business and let him do whatever he wants? 
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04-08-2008, 11:57 PM
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your friend, eh?
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04-09-2008, 10:06 AM
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my advice: stay out of it. let it be up to your friend to decide if she's right for him.
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04-09-2008, 11:11 AM
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Originally Posted by tld221
your friend, eh?
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Yes my friend
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04-09-2008, 11:17 AM
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my advice: stay out of it. let it be up to your friend to decide if she's right for him.
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I agree. Some people have to learn the hard way, but in the end they've learned from their mistake.
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04-09-2008, 11:38 AM
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single ques??
Is there a forum/website/community for single omega men?
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04-09-2008, 08:45 PM
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Is there a forum/website/community for single omega men?
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www.quitbeingagroupie.com
Have fun.
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04-09-2008, 10:16 PM
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Originally Posted by ching237
Ok my friend is finally interested in a girl after going through a rough time for the last few months but I don't think she is right for him. This girl has a boyfriend but after being with him for only two days she was cheating on him with my friend. My friend is a really good guy and he is the type who is interested in more than just random hook-ups so I think maybe he should try to move on a focus on a girl who seems to have more relationship potential. So my question is this: Should I talk to my friend about this or just mind my own business and let him do whatever he wants? |
I say of course talk to him about it & let it ride
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04-10-2008, 12:00 AM
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Oh, Knight shadow, Oh great one, I have a website for you too... www.imanasshole.com You should meet plenty of people there, just like you!!
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04-10-2008, 12:03 AM
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Oh, Knight shadow, Oh great one, I have a website for you too... www.imanasshole.com You should meet plenty of people there, just like you!! |
I'm a regular poster there too! 
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04-10-2008, 10:50 AM
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MYOB.
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04-10-2008, 06:02 PM
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^^ lol
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04-18-2008, 09:00 AM
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If it doesn't involve or affect you, why would you stick your nose in his love life?
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04-19-2008, 10:50 AM
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I don't mean to be mean about this but STFO! I am sure if he wants advice, he'll come to you
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04-20-2008, 02:39 AM
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I disagree. I would raise your concerns in a very gentle I'm-not-trying-to-be-in-your-business-just-looking-out-for-you way. If you're friends, there's nothing wrong with telling him you're worried about what's best for him. It depends on how touchy your friend is to how he'll take it. Don't give him advice or tell him not to be with her anymore; just ask him "Are you okay with this? I just care about you and want to know you're happy." He might not be and wanna talk about it. But if he says he knows what he's doing and is just fine with the situation, then so be it. You say "okay" and y'all go on with your lives.
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