Greek advice please help!

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**** Looking for NPHC advice*****

I really wanted to be apart of Sorority ABC I did my research and everything. The school I went to chapter was suspended (10+ years). A few semesters went by and they became active again. I submitted an application for the redemption line and didn’t get in.

After that I continue to work on myself, grades and resume to be prepared for the next intake season. But I really don’t like the chapter now. I don’t want to diss them. But it’s currently all NEO’s with A LOT of clout.

Recently Sorority XYZ sent me an invitation. I was excited ��. I feel my values do align with them they better organized and I get along better with the members.

Intake season is coming up, I fear what people will think if I became an XYZ. I go to an petty HBCU and have heard labels like Pink Elephants �� or Red Doves �� etc. for girls who apply to more than 1 org.
I have went to many of ABC’s events/ MIP people know my intentions even tho I have practice discretion.

I’m a legacy of ABC I grew up admiring my mother and her sisters work in the community. But I have developed an equal admiration for the XYZ’s values.