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03-11-2021, 05:33 PM
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KKG at Indiana accused of hazing
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03-11-2021, 08:42 PM
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Well, can't say I'm surprised.
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03-11-2021, 10:30 PM
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If memory serves me, wasn’t this chapter suspended by KKG HQ about 10 years ago, also for hazing? (Note: a KKG alumna had previously lived in apartment I lived in about 10 years ago and had not gave KKG her new address.)
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03-12-2021, 02:25 PM
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I don't know much about KKG at Indiana, but I find the whole wearing robes and high heels to be strange...
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Originally Posted by ChioLu
If memory serves me, wasn’t this chapter suspended by KKG HQ about 10 years ago, also for hazing? (Note: a KKG alumna had previously lived in apartment I lived in about 10 years ago and had not gave KKG her new address.)
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I think you're thinking of Delta Delta Delta - they were suspended by their nationals in 2016. (They were just down 3rd Street from Kappa. DPhiE is in that house now. )
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03-14-2021, 11:46 AM
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I don't know much about KKG at Indiana, but I find the whole wearing robes and high heels to be strange...
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RIF: it was lingerie, not robes 
WIFLS: I know exactly how this kind of behavior happens in chapters. Witnessed it first hand during my time advising. Actives, left to their own devices, are gonna do stupid stuff. That's a universal truth. And the information about hazing behavior in the article is spot-on. Victim to bystander to perpetuating the hazing is how it goes. How many times did I hear "we've always done it this way?" when it was/is a very recent behavior or event (two-three years old ). I could write a lot more but I won't. You can fill in the blanks on this.
Rogue chapters - we all have them. Why? Lack of direct alumnae (advisor) contact and support, for starters. I'm saying what I always say when this isht surfaces: there but for the grace of God go you and I.
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RIF: it was lingerie, not robes
WIFLS: I know exactly how this kind of behavior happens in chapters. Witnessed it first hand during my time advising. Actives, left to their own devices, are gonna do stupid stuff. That's a universal truth. And the information about hazing behavior in the article is spot-on. Victim to bystander to perpetuating the hazing is how it goes. How many times did I hear "we've always done it this way?" when it was/is a very recent behavior or event (two-three years old ). I could write a lot more but I won't. You can fill in the blanks on this.
Rogue chapters - we all have them. Why? Lack of direct alumnae (advisor) contact and support, for starters. I'm saying what I always say when this isht surfaces: there but for the grace of God go you and I. |
Wouldn't change a word.
Anyone who has ever been an Advisor knows that every chapter is basically one charismatic idiot from a hazing charge.
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03-14-2021, 06:08 PM
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Anyone who has ever been an Advisor knows that every chapter is basically one charismatic idiot from a hazing charge.
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Ding, Ding, Ding. Yep. Former advisor who couldn't agree more.
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03-15-2021, 12:22 PM
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Ding, Ding, Ding. Yep. Former advisor who couldn't agree more.
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so true. my favorite line is "we have always..." and I tell them that "always" has been 2 years. traditions can start and die very quickly.
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03-16-2021, 06:23 AM
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Wouldn't change a word.
Anyone who has ever been an Advisor knows that every chapter is basically one charismatic idiot from a hazing charge.
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Amen and amen!
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03-16-2021, 02:02 PM
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Wouldn't change a word.
Anyone who has ever been an Advisor knows that every chapter is basically one charismatic idiot from a hazing charge.
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Yup, and it's guaranteed that if you have traditions which appear harmless, they are just one charasmatic idiot from making national headlines.
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03-27-2021, 09:22 PM
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RIF: it was lingerie, not robes |
This whole article sounds like it came from some bad B-movie on Amazon Video.
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Yup, and it's guaranteed that if you have traditions which appear harmless, they are just one charasmatic idiot from making national headlines.
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Quote worthy!
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03-28-2021, 09:14 PM
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"Charismatic idiot" is such a perfect expression! Thanks, Honeychile! Also, former advisor joining the "Yep" train.
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