The Best thing

CodeBlue_R3 · #1 07-27-2001, 03:41 PM

Ok fellas, I was wondering what's the best thing a female has ever done for you to make you feel special or what would you like or think is something a female could do to make you feel wanted.

AlphaSigLana · #2 07-27-2001, 11:41 PM

I am very interested to see what the guys say. I feel I have a lot to give. I just need someone to recieve what i have to give.

The Original Ape · #3 07-30-2001, 01:05 PM

REMAIN LOYAL--THROUGH THICK AND THIN. IF SHE DOESN'T GIVE UP ON ME, NO MATTER WHAT, I'M ALL HERS, AND HERS ONLY!

dirtymike1906 · #4 07-31-2001, 12:27 AM

To me, the most "special" of females are those who are able to support their men during hard times. I not only need my girl when I'm up; I need her when I'm down too.

I recall once when I was between jobs and was really anxious about an upcoming interview, my girl spent the early morning hours secretly decorating the door to my home with balloons, streamers, and banners declaring things like, "You can do it!" "You're number one!" "I'll be by your side no matter what!" To her, it was a small, inexpensive gesture, but it was all the added confidence and assurance I needed when I left that morning. And I DID end up landing that job!

nikki25 · #5 08-06-2001, 02:22 PM

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Originally posted by dirtymike1906:

I recall once when I was between jobs and was really anxious about an upcoming interview, my girl spent the early morning hours secretly decorating the door to my home with balloons, streamers, and banners declaring things like, "You can do it!" "You're number one!" "I'll be by your side no matter what!" To her, it was a small, inexpensive gesture, but it was all the added confidence and assurance I needed when I left that morning. And I DID end up landing that job!

This is too special!!! I'm up in my office smiling at and applauding this young lady's efforts to support you!

dirtymike1906 · #6 08-06-2001, 03:18 PM

Nikki25: She definitely set a standard for all others to follow that day!!! Some women intuitively have just the right touch to make their man feel like it's all so very worth it!

The Original Ape · #7 08-06-2001, 06:38 PM

All Dayum, bruh! That was nice of her!

I had one that stood by a bruh in hard times too. I was about to lose my apartment due to some timely misfortune; and this girl offered to subsidize my rent, purchase food, and help a brutha search for a betta job. You had to be there to appreciate it. She didn't do it so that she could later torment me with the favor she did me; she did it cause she believed in me, and genuinely wanted to help. She is a beautiful woman; and I have been trying to return the favor for a while now, but she wont let me. She definitely rekindled my belief in women.

nikki25 · #8 08-13-2001, 10:07 AM

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Originally posted by The Original Ape:
She definitely rekindled my belief in women.

I'm very happy to hear that! I know that on both sides, women/men have wronged people to the point wherein they don't feel "right" in relationships any longer....then, one day, their faith is restored in the power of love by a good woman/man. And that is just one of the most beautiful things.

Chi_ZETABBW · #9 08-14-2001, 12:15 AM

I know this question is for the guys. I'm just trying to think of the nicest thing a man ever done for me. I've had men to do nice things for me(married twice). But somehow their actions are canvelled out when I realize they are jerks or has alternative motives. I posed this same question in our forum for the women to answer.