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Old 08-07-2000, 02:42 PM
AlwaysDivine AlwaysDivine is offline
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Question Anyone ever go through the membership process at the same time as their boyfriend?

Did anyone here seek membership or become a member in the same term (semester-I'm not sure how it is referred to) as their sinificant other (boyfriend,etc.)? And, if so, what fraternity, and what impacted your relationship most about it, (if it did at all)?

I know I posted this already, but I didn't get a response and am really interested in the responses.
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Old 08-07-2000, 02:50 PM
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I'm sorry you haven't gotten any responses as of yet, but I was never in this situation.
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Old 08-07-2000, 02:52 PM
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No prob - thanks for the reply anyway.
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Old 08-08-2000, 07:45 PM
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I did not go through with someone, but I di go through right after someone I was seeing.

Basically I think that it ruined our rel;ationship. Noit the fact that we were both Greek, but the fact that although he only had a few months on me (he was stil a neo) he seemes to treat me like he was my "big brother" or something

Telling me what will go on in my org like he would ever be that blessed to know what happens behind those sacred doors and he was just irritating as all hell, but since we are no longer together ( like you couldn't tell from the way I've talked about him I will just stop there because you know that you remeber all kinds of things that you didn't like about somebody when you "break up"

But basically, I think that it's best not to try to compare experinecesor really even talk about some things, unless you already have a very very secure relationship.
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Old 08-10-2000, 04:03 PM
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Boyfriend, what boyfriend? Ivies didn't have boyfriends!

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Old 08-10-2000, 04:19 PM
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Thanks Soror DG for taking me back, it made me Laugh, Ironically it was not that funny back then!!

ADDED: And why the name change of the topic??

[This message has been edited by LadyAKA (edited August 10, 2000).]
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Old 08-11-2000, 03:19 AM
blu_theatrics blu_theatrics is offline
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LMAO, so that wasn't just us then..but you know that there were ways around that......lol
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Boyfriend, what boyfriend? Ivies didn't have boyfriends!

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Old 08-11-2000, 08:40 AM
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One way or another, we all share similar experiences.
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