A lit candle goes around the circle
(1 = pin, 2 = lavalier, 3 = promise ring, 4= engagement ring)
and we sing whatever song we decide on!
After that many times, the girl the candle belongs to blows it out & tells her story of how she got the pin/lavalier/ring (up until then, nobody knows whose it is except the Ritual Chair, who sets up the candlepass!)
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alpha xi delta alumna
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