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01-20-2005, 11:48 AM
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In this thread, we weep with Senusret I
Why is it that when they decide they don't want to pursue anything with you because they're not "ready" for a relationship, they still feel the need to tell you:
*I still care about you.
*I think about you every day.
*I read your blog every day.
*I never meant for you to be hurt.
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01-20-2005, 11:52 AM
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Because they don't have the balls to cut you completely loose and know things are completely done. They don't want to be the jerk, but if they really do care about you, they'll know they have to be a jerk for a while for you to get past it.
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01-20-2005, 12:01 PM
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Because they suck!
*HUGS*
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01-20-2005, 12:04 PM
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Sorry. That sucks.
<hugs>
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01-20-2005, 12:28 PM
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Quote:
Originally posted by 33girl
Because they don't have the balls to cut you completely loose and know things are completely done. They don't want to be the jerk, but if they really do care about you, they'll know they have to be a jerk for a while for you to get past it.
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that is so true.
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01-20-2005, 12:47 PM
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This is the worst. Feel better.
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01-20-2005, 01:12 PM
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Re: In this thread, we weep with Senusret I
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Originally posted by Senusret I
*I think about you every day.
*I never meant for you to be hurt.
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Those two together are the most annoying. Like what part of "I think about you every day" is going to make us feel better...oooo, i know, knowing that you didn't actually plan this whole situation will make me feel better. I had a very similar situation recently so I feel for you. Just know-from personal experience-that the best thing to do to help how you feel is to cut off contact with them completely. Keeping the boy in the shadows won't help you move on to a guy who is ready for something when you are. Feel better!
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01-20-2005, 01:31 PM
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Sorry to hear that. I've been there and it sucks at first, but it gets better. I hope you feel better soon!!
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01-20-2005, 01:34 PM
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I feel for ya, RD -
If it makes you feel any better, you'd have a ton of takers for the "ITT, we SLEEP with Senusret I" thread too, judging from forum response
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01-20-2005, 01:44 PM
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Originally posted by KSig RC
I feel for ya, RD -
If it makes you feel any better, you'd have a ton of takers for the "ITT, we SLEEP with Senusret I" thread too, judging from forum response
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If I was Rashid, I would stay gay, but that's just me. Besides he has no time for b-rods that don't buy his book.
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01-20-2005, 02:20 PM
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Re: In this thread, we weep with Senusret I
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Originally posted by Senusret I
Why is it that when they decide they don't want to pursue anything with you because they're not "ready" for a relationship, they still feel the need to tell you:
*I still care about you.
*I think about you every day.
*I read your blog every day.
*I never meant for you to be hurt.
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I find that a ritual sacrifice of all of his belongings (think big bonfire in the kitchen sink) is a good way to start the "getting over" process.
Seriously, though, this sucks. He either can't admit the truth to you or himself, or he's extremely scared of feelings. *my 2 cents*
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01-20-2005, 02:22 PM
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Sorry dude, stay strong.
*hugs*
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01-20-2005, 02:26 PM
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People who say those kinds of things are just being selfish. They want to string you along so that they feel better about themselves! You don't want someone in your life that will treat you that way anyway! 
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01-20-2005, 02:31 PM
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Buddy, you just need some of this:
and some of this:
and all will be well. 
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01-20-2005, 02:42 PM
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Originally posted by Rudey
If I was Rashid, I would stay gay, but that's just me. Besides he has no time for b-rods that don't buy his book.
-Rudey
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I totally agree - buy his book, help this good man out!
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