Confessions...

PerfectVerse06 · #1 02-25-2006, 11:36 AM

Is there something weighing heavy on your heart?

Something you need to get off of your chest?

Perhaps there's a secret you've been hiding from someone...

Well, here is the place to air that dirty laundry of yours!

It doesn't have to be something serious, just something that folks may not know about you.

It's time to let it GO!

I'll start as an example:

Sometimes when Mr. Perfect (my boyfriend) is having a conversation with me, I will COMPLETELY zone out and start thinking of this that aren't related to what he's talking about. But I'll make sure to add some "Uh-huh's", "Right's", "Absolutely's", and "Yeah's" in there so he believes that I'm paying attention.

I love him dearly, but my mind wanders at times LOL!

So now that you've got the idea, come on in and let it out! Don't leave me hangin'!

newpsalmistgirl · #2 02-26-2006, 11:41 AM

I wont leave you hanging. I've been dating my boyfriend for two months now... And it wont be lasting that much longer... But, anyway... I told this new guy that I didn't have a boyfriend at all... Now, I'm not dating the new guy, and don't intend to... at least not while I still have a boyfriend...

MightyQuinn · #3 02-26-2006, 06:07 PM

I can not stand my husbands 2 bestfriends and I used to hate when they came over our house! I've never told him this and I try my best not to show it because I know how much they mean to him. I just try to remind myself that I don't have to like them nor entertain them but I can't help to feel like tiny roaches are crawling under my skin whenever I would walk into the house and see them sitting there. They never did anything to me but let's just say I've grown to like their wives and have caught them with their privates in the zipper more than once (tryin' to holla at my girlfriends without knowing they knew me). Besides, as much as I have Sorors running in and out of my house for various functions I felt the least I could do was grin and bear it when those 2 buttheads were at my house

. Now that we are in Germany I don't have to see them for awhile and when I see their numbers on the caller ID I just holla for my husband to pick up the phone

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Whew, that felt good getting off my chest!

PerfectVerse06 · #4 02-26-2006, 08:08 PM

Whoa!!

newpsalmistgirl and MightyQuinn have made my lil confession sound lame compared to theirs LOL!!

@ newpsalmistgirl, keep us updated when you give your bf the ole heave-ho LOL! Poor guy doesn't know it's coming...

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I can't help to feel like tiny roaches are crawling under my skin whenever I would walk into the house and see them sitting there.

HILARIOUS!!!

Too bad it took you going to a whole 'nother CONTINENT to get away from them for a bit LMBO!

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Whew, that felt good getting off my chest!

That's the spirit!

This is definitely cyber-therapy!

Wonderful1908 · #5 02-26-2006, 08:28 PM

I have come to the conclusion I am not a happy person without money. At first I thought this made me vain and shallow, but I realize now its just part of who I am.

Does it make me vain and shallow? No, it just means while so me people need companionship, or attetntion, or romance I need to have some money in my wallet. I tried to change who I am, but I have worked it out.

Paradise359 · #6 02-26-2006, 08:54 PM

Well my father is a dentist & I didn't want to follow in his footsteps until my junior year in college. I've taken the Dental Admissions Test studying halfheartedly, done my science courses without putting in much effort and I KNOW that I can do better. I just don't want to. I work in my father's dental practice & tell everyone I want to be a dentist b/c I thought I did. But it came to me after prayer & true self observation.... I don't want to be a dentist. I really want to do law. I don't know the first thing about what kind of law, but I feel as if this is what I'm meant to be. My mind is always playing devil's advocate, I'm a stickler for doing things right & lawfully. I can argue a point supurbly & I don't like to speak until I have all of my facts in order.
As a matter of fact my father always said he thought I would be a lawyer. I'm waiting for the right moment to tell everyone "nevermind".

Afrochic · #7 02-26-2006, 11:55 PM

I'm with you MightyQuinn, I don't like my husband's friend Tony. Tony I don't like you. I hate to see your Montero pull up. Stay at home with your fifty million children that look exactly like you. I know he knows I don't like him. I've also seen him talk to other women but he doesn't know I see his dirt....and his wife just had a baby.

newpsalmistgirl · #8 02-27-2006, 01:01 AM

Paradise... What God has for you is yours, so even though you don't know exactly what type of law you want to practice, you don't need to, "Jesus will work it out"... Telling everyone wont be half as hard as you think... I'll surely pray for you, but you are blessed to have found out your heart. Oftentimes we feel that we need to do whats "best" or what "makes the most sense," but do whats in your heart, and you'll never have regrets!

LMBO @ Afrochic and MightyQuinn...

PerfectVerse... I'll keep you posted... check in with me at the end of the week!

MightyQuinn · #9 02-27-2006, 03:59 AM

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Originally posted by Afrochic
I'm with you MightyQuinn, I don't like my husband's friend Tony. Tony I don't like you. I hate to see your Montero pull up. Stay at home with your fifty million children that look exactly like you. I know he knows I don't like him. I've also seen him talk to other women but he doesn't know I see his dirt....and his wife just had a baby.

Dang Afrochic- you just put his name out there

! Trust me when I tell you I am by far the moral police but I wish if they were going to be dogs they wouldn't have let me get so close to their wives (they truly are wonderful sisters and far too good for those two). My husband's take on them cheating is he just stays away from it because he too likes their wives but he says it's none of our business (which is so true). The sad part about it is I think one of their wives suspects something is going on with her husband because she rarely comes around anymore and my husband says she is not as warm and welcoming to him as she used to be. I just hope she doesn't think we're secretly setting him up with other women because we are far too grown for that. My husband says he's always been like that and she knew that when they got married so he hopes she doesn't think it all began when they became friends.

@Wonderful 1908

Girl ain't nothing wrong with financial prosperity -- I'm sure it's not the only thing that brings you happiness.

OhioCentaur · #10 02-27-2006, 11:09 AM

My problem is simple yet complex... I've found someone i can spend the rest of my life with... BUT before this person came along i was on the road of finding that with another young lady. That young lady was playing hard to get and was soon forgotten but has resurfaced as of recent and wants another chance. I know that since i'm with one i cant just up and go with the other but old feelings die hard. I know what to do but then i dont know what to do...

lovehaiku84 · #11 02-27-2006, 11:57 AM

To RC.... I really, REALLY don't like S. I think that she is a raging b*atch and has entirely too much control for a woman who is not even your SO. The fact that you allow her to behave that way and still have you as a friend confuses me to no end.

JustMyself · #12 02-27-2006, 12:14 PM

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Originally posted by Wonderful1908
I have come to the conclusion I am not a happy person without money. At first I thought this made me vain and shallow, but I realize now its just part of who I am.
Does it make me vain and shallow? No, it just means while so me people need companionship, or attetntion, or romance I need to have some money in my wallet. I tried to change who I am, but I have worked it out.

It makes me feel so happy to actually see someone else say this because I am the same way. For the longest time I would pray to God that he would help me control my spending then all of a sudden one day I came to the conclusion that I should just start praying for more income. Well, I have found a wonderful, easy part-time job that pays me really well in addition to my full-time job and i'm able to have the things I want when I want them. I hate being without money. To see me with and without it is like night and day. When I have it i'm content but without it i'm morbidly depressed. Happy shopping!

ShamikaT · #13 02-27-2006, 12:36 PM

I've been having the r.u.n.s since 3 am.

I "borrowed" some more money from my cash register. And, don't yall trip. It was only thirty dollas, and I will pay that mess back. I'm not above of asking for some more allowance from pops.

LAWD, I have not had sex in a year. I done regained my virginity since I became a Christian, and I'm 'bout to relose it. I am also stuggling with masturbation. All before I get out of bed in the morning. All at work (when no one's there). All in the showers. All at stoplights (when there's no cars next me). All before I go to sleep at night. Yall pray for me.

OhioCentaur · #14 02-27-2006, 12:38 PM

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Originally posted by ShamikaT
I've been having the r.u.n.s six 3 am.

I "borrowed" some more money from my cash register. And, don't yall trip. It was only thirty dollas, and I will pay that mess back. I'm not above of asking for some more allowance from pops.

LAWD, I have not had sex in a year. I done regained my virginity since I became a Christian, and I'm 'bout to relose it. I am also stuggling with masturbation. All before I get out of bed in the morning. All at work (when no one's there). All in the showers. All at stoplights (when there's no cars next me). All before I go to sleep at night. Yall pray for me.

You cant be serious?

ShamikaT · #15 02-27-2006, 12:38 PM

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Originally posted by OhioCentaur
You cant be serious?

About which one?