Is this formal or informal receruitment??
There is no rule about allowing her to come and participate in recruitment again. If she particpates in formal recruitment you need to follow standard legacy policies.
I am sensing the vibe that the chapter is not interested in pledging the women, which is OK as unfortunately not all legacies are a fit for a chapter. However please extend every courtesy to this young woman -think how you would want your daughter treated by an A Phi chapter!
Hope this helps, I understand this is a tough situation...
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