And for the bizzillionth time, How Come?

[CrimsonTide4]

HC skip the movies and TALK period?
HC when I meet you next week, we gotta talk?
HC tell that mother******* that your heart does not have a revolving door?
HC tell him your name is not Monopoly so cut the D-*-M-N GAMES?

HC ladies let us STOP putting up with other folks' bull mess?




EDITED!!!!!
HC NIKKI1920, how would you feel if this was your daughter and a man did this to her?
HC you are worth more than this bull mess old dude is giving you?
HC I need to know how will it spite him to go to the movies with him?
HC I don't know the whole SITU8CHION (ghetto spelling) but from what I do know, it sounds like someone is full of mierda?

HC shake off all the bull mess these last 2 weeks of the OLD YEAR?

[librasoul22]

Originally posted by nikki1920
HC
Thanks for the advice Kisha and HK1974!!
I will go to the movies with him, JUST to spite him.
If he gets all apologetic and stuh, then I might need ya'll to send me some strength via prayer.
We've had rough two years together, and all this stuff came out on Friday?

HC nikki1920, I have to concur with CT4 on this one?
HC don't go to the movies with him?
HC men that want to have their cake and eat it too?
HC?

HC a long talk would be nice, but you cannot compromise yourself for a man?
HC has he compromised himself for you?
HC it doesn't sound like it?

HC I also concur with HK?
HC "friends with benefits" sounds like what he wants?
HC you are worth much more than that?

HC this goes for every women on here?
HC YOUR half of the love can only go so far?
HC relationships are NOT 50/50?
HC they are 100/100 and if there is anything less then you need to pull a Changing Faces and GHETTOUT?
HC that was my jam?
HC but I digress?

HC picture it, Sicily, 1918?
HC a young maiden met a charming prince?
HC he turned out to be a toad?
HC let him move along to the next lillypad and stop taking up space on yours?
HC the end?

HC ?

[CrimsonTide4]

Originally posted by nikki1920
I will go to the movies with him, JUST to spite him.

Imma go, but I won't hold his hand or even share the popcorn.

HC this sounds the same as the women who say "I'll have sex with him but I won't enjoy it, won't hook him up or have an O" ?

HC you are not spiting him, you are only giving him what he wants?

HC that in turn keeps up a cycle of Dumb AZZ behavior on his part?

HC tell him to beat it, skip his azz on, skedaddle, etc. etc. etc.?

[Steeltrap]

HC I went to the outlet mall to get special perfume for my moms?
HC when I got there, they had sold out the last of the testers?

HC I had to buy the regular packaging?
HC I didn't think of getting my sister's gift there?
HC I just got back from card shopping?
HC I'm headed back out in about an hour or so?

[Eclipse]

Originally posted by CrimsonTide4


HC this sounds the same as the women who say "I'll have sex with him but I won't enjoy it, won't hook him up eek: or have an O" ?

HC you are not spiting him, you are only giving him what he wants?

HC that in turn keeps up a cycle of Dumb AZZ behavior on his part?

HC tell him to beat it, skip his azz on, skedaddle, etc. etc. etc.?

HC CT4 is like a momma on this one?
HC my momma would tell me about my self on something then say something like "now get outta my face."
HC 2 seconds later she would be back 'cause she thought about something else she needed to get on me about?
HC "and another thing....."
HC I am really feeling you on this CT4,
HC so much so I am posting at work!
HC folks better leave me alone about it too!
HC I hope Nikki realizes this is 'cause you care
HC if you didn't care you would speak on it
HC we all need sistafriends to be HONEST with us
HC sometimes we don't do it (me included) in RL cause you don't want to hurt someone's feelings?
HC hurt feelings are better than broken hearts?

[1savvydiva]

Originally posted by Honeykiss1974
HC Nikki1920 things will be ok?
HC I am going to give you some unsolicited advice because I was in a similiar situation?
HC don't go?
HC this mofo sounds like he only wants to be around you when he FEELS like having a girlfriend?
HC it sounds like he wants the benefits of a girlfriend with none of the "work"?
HC I can see it now...y'all go out to the movies and have a good time?
HC things go good between both of you for a minute, until something happens?
HC the first thing he will say is.."but we ain't together"?
HC ?
HC he will probably use this excuse everytime he decides to act up?
HC don't let this ish drag on, and on, and on?
HC bump him?
HC I've been there?
HC I still don't sound bitter, do I ?
HC I know you a wonderful lady and a treasure to ANY man?

HC HK1974 said everything that I was thinking?
HC I don't need to add anything but...

HC you can count on your GC family to hold you down!
HC we will be alright girlie!

[Gina1201]

HC

. . . I am posting to give sistafriend support for Nikki1920.

. . . I hope that you follow the advice of CT4 and HK?

. . .I know this might be hard since you were together 2 years?

. . .I think you'll do the smart thing?

. . .I have no advice since everyone has said everything that needed to be said.

. . . ROFL at librasoul and her frog analogy

. . . GOOD LUCK Nikki1920!!!

[CrimsonTide4]

HC

"No man/woman is worth your tears because the only one who is will never make you cry."

HC once you get that in your spirit, clarity comes with the situation?

[allsmiles_22]

Originally posted by Ideal08

HC I found out that Soror AllSmiles has NEVER seen Charlie Brown's Christmas?
HC I told her I had to bust her out on here?
HC I got clowned for having never seen The Five Heartbeats?
HC I think that this is worse?
HC there was a soror there who has never seen ROOTS?!

HC I thought you would have forgotten about that little comment.
HC I told you I saw the Halloween special though?
HC not seeing The Five Heartbeats is worse?
HC you just wait until I see you again.

[Exquisite5]

HC I just had to post after soror allsmiles because I too, and #5, FA 00 and I just got happy to see another?
HC I love being a two year old neo?

[allsmiles_22]

Originally posted by Exquisite5
HC I just had to post after soror allsmiles because I too, and #5, FA 00 and I just got happy to see another?
HC I love being a two year old neo?

HC Soror Exquisite5 has me grinning from ear to ear with that same happy feeling.
HC I extend to you a 5 club, Fall '00 BIG CYBER HUG.

[RedefinedDiva]

Originally posted by allsmiles_22


HC I thought you would have forgotten about that little comment.
HC I told you I saw the Halloween special though?
HC not seeing The Five Heartbeats is worse?
HC you just wait until I see you again.

HC I have to disagree?
HC not seeing Charlie Brown is much worse?
HC I HAD to clown you on that one!
HC it's cool though?
HC you can make up for it in about two days?
HC we have to get Ideal a copy of the Five Heartbeats QUICK!?

HC I had "too many smilies" in my previous post?
HC GC made me go back to remove them?
HC it had erased ALL of my message?
HC I was ?
HC GC is makes me sick sometimes?

HC UPN?
HC I like Girlfriends and One-on-One?
HC I don't really like the Parkers?
HC Kim is TOO DAMN DUMB??!
HC I can't get with that?
HC?
HC Sydney Poitier (Sidney's daughter) has a new show premiering on UPN on Jan. 6?
HC it's called "Abby" and it also features Kadeem Hardison?
Hc I'm not interested?

HC Nikki1920 got some good advice?
HC CT4 put it down like a pro?

[Ideal08]

Originally posted by RedefinedDiva
HC I have to disagree?
HC not seeing Charlie Brown is much worse?
HC I HAD to clown you on that one!
HC it's cool though?
HC you can make up for it in about two days?
HC we have to get Ideal a copy of the Five Heartbeats QUICK!?

HC I am glad you see it my way? lol
HC I have seen T5H?
HC CT4 made sure of that?

HC Soror Allsmiles, ain't nobody scurred of you?
HC you lucky I ain't tell about the cookie and the popcorn?

HC nikki1920, I agree with all the advice that has been given?
HC I am a non-trusting skeptic when it comes to these men?
HC this is what it sounds like to me?
HC he wanted his keys back?
HC he still wanna date?
HC it sounds like to me he wants to have uninterrupted company?
HC but he still wanna kick it with you?
HC that's in case his company doesn't work out?
HC that's just my take on the situation?
HC either way, FUDGE HIM!!!!!????
HC you will be aight without him and his neglect issues?
HC I am sorry I haven't been in touch?
HC I will make up for it with an evite that I forgot to send you?
HC after you hang out with me and CT4 and the rest of the gang, you will feel A-OK?
HC remind me to tell you what the bookstore is having in conjunction with your sorority for Z. N. Hurston?

HC I have to get to bed?
HC the bookstore is wearing me out?
HC I may as well not be on Christmas break?
HC a sista is TIRED?

HC I have pondered and pondered?
HC the most Exquizit Heffa needs to call me or email me?
HC I can't figure out what DIAC is?
HC I think I just figured it out?
HC I am LMAO if I am right?
HC even if I'm not, I'm still LMAO?

HC if I don't talk (type?) to yall, have a happy holiday?
HC God loves you?
HC God loves you?
HC God loves you?
HC if you are feeling unloved, God loves you?
HC GOD LOVES YOU?
HC I hope that in the midst of all of your shopping and opening gifts, you remember this?
HC please remember to take the time to remember the Son that He sent to die for OUR sins?
HC THANK YOU JESUS?
HC THANK YOU for all you have blessed us with?
HC I hope that you touch all of us this season?
HC I pray that you send your sweet Holy Spirit to comfort those who are alone during the holidays?
HC I pray that you send your sweet Holy Spirit to comfort those who are broke (finanicially and spiritually and emotionally and mentally) during this season?
HC I pray that someone chooses to spend their holiday SERVING those that are less fortunate?
HC I pray that everyone is blessed with PEACE, SERENITY, COURAGE, WISDOM, STRENGTH, and LOVE this holiday season?
HC I pray that everyone has a safe and happy holiday?
HC it is in JESUS' name I pray?
HC AMEN?

HC GOD LOVES YOU?

[allsmiles_22]

Originally posted by RedefinedDiva
HC I have to disagree?
HC not seeing Charlie Brown is much worse?
HC I HAD to clown you on that one!
HC it's cool though?
HC you can make up for it in about two days?
HC we have to get Ideal a copy of the Five Heartbeats QUICK!?

HC you could have clowned me with a pm?
HC you got Ideal snickering at me behind her computer?

Originally posted by Ideal08
HC I am glad you see it my way? lol

HC I'm not the only one who hasn't seen it?
HC no one else will admit it?
HC I've determined CB is just not all that?
HC that's my story and I'm sticking to it?
HC CB better catch me while I'm flipping channels?
HC if not this Christmas, then Christmas 2003?

Originally posted by Ideal08
HC Soror Allsmiles, ain't nobody scurred of you?
HC you lucky I ain't tell about the cookie and the popcorn?

HC LOL.
HC I'm glad you didn't.
HC I wouldn't want to tell about your meatball story.

[CrimsonTide4]

Originally posted by allsmiles_22
HC I wouldn't want to tell about your meatball story.

HC I have a whole gang of stories I can tell you?

HC that is what 17 years of friendship can do for you?

HC we will have to chat?