» GC Stats |
Members: 329,763
Threads: 115,670
Posts: 2,205,239
|
Welcome to our newest member, aanapitt6324 |
|
 |
|

01-18-2014, 08:25 PM
|
Moderator
|
|
Join Date: Sep 2000
Location: Hotel Oceanview
Posts: 34,519
|
|
12 party to 3 party WTELF???
(Can we do this with hockey playoffs so the season ends before June? Just saying is all.)
__________________
It is all 33girl's fault. ~DrPhil
|

01-18-2014, 08:30 PM
|
GreekChat Member
|
|
Join Date: Jan 2014
Posts: 36
|
|
Grind setting in. Daughter still attending rush parties but has no idea where she stands in terms of numbers. In the past PNMs had an idea with the revised schedule who knows?????
|

01-18-2014, 08:36 PM
|
GreekChat Member
|
|
Join Date: Aug 2009
Location: N 37.811092 W -107.664643
Posts: 5,317
|
|
Quote:
Originally Posted by ForeverRoses
4 hours in to the world's longest day. Tonight is going to be very stressful.
|
Get you some sleep, and drink water. Thinking of you...
__________________
"One of the painful things about our time is that those who feel certainty are stupid, and those with any imagination and understanding are filled with doubt and indecision." Bertrand Russell, The Triumph of Stupidity
|

01-18-2014, 08:41 PM
|
 |
GreekChat Member
|
|
Join Date: Jan 2011
Location: Sweet Home Indiana
Posts: 2,084
|
|
Quote:
Originally Posted by ForeverRoses
Yes we use RFM. Our guidance consisted of being told to call our hq with rfm questions and an understanding that we might not know what return rates to anticipate.
|
Hang in there!! It will be interesting tobsee how things shake out on Tuesday.
__________________
Sigma Kappa
One Heart One Way since 1874
|

01-18-2014, 09:24 PM
|
GreekChat Member
|
|
Join Date: Jan 2013
Posts: 831
|
|
This sounds brutal for both sides! Despite best intentions, the selection process on both sides could seem so arbitrary. The metaphor that comes to mind is giant piles of assorted clothing and the need to get out the door in 30 seconds, so you just grab a couple of items and conclude, "Uhhh, fine, the striped top!" (When if you had the time to think about it, you might have picked the purple paisley.
|

01-18-2014, 09:39 PM
|
Super Moderator
|
|
Join Date: Sep 2003
Location: naples, florida
Posts: 18,659
|
|
Love your analogy pinksequins.
__________________
I live in Fantasyland and I have waterfront property.
|

01-19-2014, 12:23 AM
|
GreekChat Member
|
|
Join Date: Jul 2001
Posts: 1,764
|
|
Quote:
Originally Posted by ForeverRoses
Yes we use RFM. Our guidance consisted of being told to call our hq with rfm questions and an understanding that we might not know what return rates to anticipate.
|
All chapters were provided with anticipated accepts for each round with the understanding that even the most seasoned RFM specialists do not have crystal balls.
__________________
ALPHA PHI
|

01-19-2014, 03:23 AM
|
Moderator
|
|
Join Date: Jul 2001
Location: Crescent City
Posts: 10,051
|
|
Quote:
Originally Posted by 33girl
12 party to 3 party WTELF???
|
Amen to that! So you've spent 45 minutes per chapter at 21 party, and, what, another 45 minutes per chapter at 12 party, and you're choosing which 3 chapters you want to pref?
__________________
AEΦ ... Multa Corda, Una Causa ... Celebrating Over 100 Years of Sisterhood
Have no place I can be since I found Serenity, but you can't take the sky from me...
Only those who risk going too far, find out how far they can go.
|

01-19-2014, 08:31 AM
|
GreekChat Member
|
|
Join Date: Jan 2014
Posts: 36
|
|
Quote:
Originally Posted by aephi alum
Amen to that! So you've spent 45 minutes per chapter at 21 party, and, what, another 45 minutes per chapter at 12 party, and you're choosing which 3 chapters you want to pref?
|
And the actives spent 45 minutes with you at 21 party and another 45 minutes at 12 party and they're choosing who to invite to 3 party.
My daughter believes the cuts are going to be brutal. The PNMs she knows, herself included, have no idea how they are doing. Most of them were surprised by chapters who did not invite them back to 12 as well as chapters who did. As we have no point of reference is this how it usually is or has the revised schedule made it so?
We knew rushing at IU was tough but this is bordering on insanity.
|

01-19-2014, 09:37 AM
|
GreekChat Member
|
|
Join Date: Jan 2014
Posts: 22
|
|
My daughter said there are 4 timeslots for the 3-party today, so all PNMs get at least one break. Is that how it has been in past years? My concern is that due to the modified schedule and less time spent with each PNM leading up to 3-party, the houses will bring back more girls for 3-party today than usual, and the big disappointment will be between 3-party and bid night. That would be the worst! Although none of it is good...
|

01-19-2014, 09:40 AM
|
Super Moderator
|
|
Join Date: Aug 2000
Posts: 14,249
|
|
When do the girls get their invitations?
|

01-19-2014, 09:56 AM
|
GreekChat Member
|
|
Join Date: Jan 2014
Posts: 22
|
|
She said between 11:00 - 11:30 AM EST
|

01-19-2014, 09:58 AM
|
GreekChat Member
|
|
Join Date: May 2007
Location: Michigan
Posts: 4,594
|
|
Quote:
Originally Posted by Mom64
And the actives spent 45 minutes with you at 21 party and another 45 minutes at 12 party and they're choosing who to invite to 3 party.
My daughter believes the cuts are going to be brutal. The PNMs she knows, herself included, have no idea how they are doing. Most of them were surprised by chapters who did not invite them back to 12 as well as chapters who did. As we have no point of reference is this how it usually is or has the revised schedule made it so?
We knew rushing at IU was tough but this is bordering on insanity.
|
Quote:
Originally Posted by stbemtpynest
My daughter said there are 4 timeslots for the 3-party today, so all PNMs get at least one break. Is that how it has been in past years? My concern is that due to the modified schedule and less time spent with each PNM leading up to 3-party, the houses will bring back more girls for 3-party today than usual, and the big disappointment will be between 3-party and bid night. That would be the worst! Although none of it is good...
|
Moms, I am sending happy thoughts your way. I had a lot of anxiety last January when my daughter was going through a competitive recruitment, and I sincerely wish your daughters the best.
It's not atypical for campuses to have an extra party, to keep numbers down and maintain the intimate atmosphere at Pref, so I wouldn't worry about that. I do think it will be ultra critical to maximize all options and list ALL pref chapters on the MRABA card. As pinksequins said, this year is rushed and it will be difficult for both sides to get a good feel for each other. There are bound to be extra surprises with where PNMs land. Keep all options open!
__________________
Gamma Phi Beta
|

01-19-2014, 10:28 AM
|
GreekChat Member
|
|
Join Date: Aug 2006
Location: right here
Posts: 2,055
|
|
Four parties for preference has been an option for chapters for at least the past for years so that is not a change this year.
__________________
So I enter that I may grow in knowledge, wisdom and love.
So I depart that I may now better serve my fellow man, my country & God.
|

01-19-2014, 11:11 AM
|
GreekChat Member
|
|
Join Date: Jan 2014
Posts: 22
|
|
Thanks Sciencewoman and ForeverRoses. The schedule published on the IUB PHA website only shows 3 parties, so I thought this was yet another last-minute change.
|
 |
|
Posting Rules
|
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts
HTML code is Off
|
|
|
|