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12-17-2008, 09:34 AM
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sex... i need advice asap!
So there is this guy (we will call him Chris) I have known since 7th grade, I am now a sophomore in college. We have always been friends and nothing more, until this past October when we went to this party with some friends and after that night things went from friends to more than friends. We have so many things in common and things will be made official (boyfriend-girlfriend not marriage) sometime closer to Christmas (I heard from one of his friends)
Recently, the past two weeks we have been talking sexual things. He knows I am a virgin (thats right the only 19, almost 20 year old virgin left on the planet). I plan[ned] to wait until marriage but I don't thing that's going to happen. Last night I gave in to my feelings and said it is very possible that it will happen soon. I won't say what else we spoke about 
My question is, how do I know if this is the right thing to do? He is a lot different that other guys I have messed with and i hae never felt this way about anybody else. I am simply tired of waiting to get some, i have passes up I don't know how many guys, but this one feels right.
Any advice?
P.S- I promise you he is a good guy. I wouldn't give up my virginity to some random loser.
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12-17-2008, 09:41 AM
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Originally Posted by cincy
So there is this guy (we will call him Chris) I have known since 7th grade, I am now a sophomore in college. We have always been friends and nothing more, until this past October when we went to this party with some friends and after that night things went from friends to more than friends. We have so many things in common and things will be made official (boyfriend-girlfriend not marriage) sometime closer to Christmas (I heard from one of his friends)
Recently, the past two weeks we have been talking sexual things. He knows I am a virgin (thats right the only 19, almost 20 year old virgin left on the planet). I plan[ned] to wait until marriage but I don't thing that's going to happen. Last night I gave in to my feelings and said it is very possible that it will happen soon. I won't say what else we spoke about
My question is, how do I know if this is the right thing to do? He is a lot different that other guys I have messed with and i hae never felt this way about anybody else. I am simply tired of waiting to get some, i have passes up I don't know how many guys, but this one feels right.
Any advice?
P.S- I promise you he is a good guy. I wouldn't give up my virginity to some random loser. |
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1. There is a Dating and Relationships forum that this would be perfect in and you can use this link to find it:
http://www.greekchat.com/gcforums/fo...play.php?f=206
2. Make sure he uses a condom if you are that pressed about getting some.
...are you Scottish by chance?
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12-17-2008, 09:43 AM
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Give it up. GC gives the best sex advice. 
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12-17-2008, 08:58 PM
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2. Make sure he uses a condom if you are that pressed about getting some.
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12-17-2008, 10:09 PM
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I guess you didn't like the advice you got in the other thread you posted in D&R:
http://greekchat.com/gcforums/showthread.php?t=101777
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12-17-2008, 10:11 PM
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are ye sure? |
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yea im sre. nowhere near being scottish
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I hae figured it out!
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12-18-2008, 12:35 AM
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I hae figured it out!
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figured what out?
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12-18-2008, 12:33 AM
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i actually didnt know there was a dating and relationships forum until phrozen1ne told me. that is in response to your "I guess you didn't like the advice you got in the other thread you posted in D&R:" comment.
i could atually care less about other's comments and advice. and i really dont like your ass. you made yourself look dumb, try reading up on previous comments before making accusations about mine.
just got reminded of my short fuse. let me stop now before i say something crazy that may hurt some feelings...
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12-18-2008, 12:37 AM
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that is in response to your "I guess you didn't like the advice you got in the other thread you posted in D&R:" comment
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Um, you're gonna wanna check yourself here. You do NOT want KSUViolet on your bad side. TRUST ME.
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i could atually care less about other's comments and advice.
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Yes, well evidenced by your coming onto a forum and ASKING EVERYONE FOR THEIR COMMENTS AND ADVICE.
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and i really dont like your ass
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You more of a boob gal?
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just got reminded of my short fuse. let me stop now before i say something crazy that may hurt some feelings...
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HAHAHAHAHAHAhahahahahahahaha. Silly n00b.
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12-18-2008, 12:38 AM
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i could atually care less about other's comments and advice. and i really dont like your ass. you made yourself look dumb, try reading up on previous comments before making accusations about mine.
just got reminded of my short fuse. let me stop now before i say something crazy that may hurt some feelings...
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Oh snap. I guess you told me. Don't you have finals or something?
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12-17-2008, 09:44 AM
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no im not scottish
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12-17-2008, 10:09 AM
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are ye sure?
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12-17-2008, 10:13 AM
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yea im sre. nowhere near being scottish
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12-17-2008, 10:28 AM
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yea im sre. nowhere near being scottish
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Oh...ummm ok lassie.
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12-17-2008, 08:56 PM
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P.S- I promise you he is a good guy. I wouldn't give up my virginity to some random loser.
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How do you know that?
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