Well preference is over.  This morning I thought it was going to be such a hard decision, but it was really clear by the end of the day! The first party I went to was:
Mike - This ceremony was really beautiful.  The girl I was preffed by was not the girl I expected, but she was nice.  We had a little bit of awkward conversation, which was kind of disappointing.  A few girls came up and said, "We heard other girls talking about you & wanting to come say hi!". That made me really happy 

  They then had a ceremony, and I totally cried.  I really enjoyed it here, but I'm not sure I would be totally comfortable.  I would still take a bid from here, the girls are really nice.
Joey - I was SO impressed by Joey!  I was preffed by a girl I didn't know, but oh my god, she could have been my twin!! I talked to her for a long time, and when it was time for the ceremony to begin I didn't want to stop talking to her.  It went by so fast! I know this is the house for me, and I'll be ecstatic if I get a bid from here.
So I obviously ranked:
1) Joey
2) Mike
We get our bids tomorrow at 4 and then at 6 we find out where our Rho Chis are from 

Wish me luck girls, I'll update when I can!