Huge problem with transfering into a new chapter...HELP!!

[MysticCat]

Originally Posted by SydneyK

Oh, and by the way, it's FRUSTRATED, not fusterated. And I'm not being rude by pointing that out.

Originally Posted by giggle528

Yeah, that word has always been a difficult one to rememeber how to spell.

Not if you pronounce it properly.

And why won't you answer AlphaFrog's question -- why did you start this thread when, according to you, the paper-work was received at your new campus before you started this thread? I don't know whether you're on the up-and-up or not, but you really do seem to have a hard time keeping your story straight. I'm just sayin' . . . .

[SydneyK]

Originally Posted by MysticCat

And why won't you answer AlphaFrog's question -- why did you start this thread when, according to you, the paper-work was received at your new campus before you started this thread? I don't know whether you're on the up-and-up or not, but you really do seem to have a hard time keeping your story straight. I'm just sayin' . . . .

Better watch out, MysticCat, or she'll sick her mama on you.

And giggle, we're still waiting for you to answer AlphaFrog's question.

[rhoyaltempest]

Originally Posted by Senusret I

I'd be fusterated too.

I hope everything works out for you!

You are so wrong for this.

[UGAalum94]

Giggle,

Hush, honey.

For your own good, you just need to stop posting now.

If you are real, you are going to get yourself in some trouble if anyone at your new or old school reads GC and figures out who you are.

Please, for your own good, just hush.

[rhoyaltempest]

Originally Posted by UGAalum94

Giggle,

Hush, honey.

For your own good, you just need to stop posting now.

If you are real, you are going to get yourself in some trouble if anyone at your new or old school reads GC and figures out who you are.

Please, for your own good, just hush.

Yup, I vote for hushing.

[jon1856]

Originally Posted by 33girl

Jon, you should be careful about using the term "ghost" member as it has an altogether different connotation than what's going on here - a group or member that isn't a real national member because the chapter no longer exists or because they couldn't be legally pledged for this reason or another (i.e. grades or class status). I don't think there's anything shady going on here, I just think the national HQ is hella slow in getting stuff out to the newly initiated girls.

Thank you 33girl.
Perhaps I am wrong but I believed that it also included those that by no true fault of their own were not registered/recorded by National.

[tld221]

Originally Posted by giggle528

yeah, I hope I like them. They are known here as the prettiest and kinda slutty group, but I went to the information meeting and they had all the tables set out, and immediatly after they dismissed the meeting and asked the girls to go look around, almost everyone went toward ABC. I mean I just have to wait until the prez says I can meet them and hang out with them as ABC, and your right they might not be the type of girls I'd like to hang out with or they can be the girls who I absolutely loveee. Who knows?
i am not going to say which group it is, but it is one of the smaller organization. They dont have nearly have as many chapters as DZ or phi beta pi (i think thats rights), so It was very hard to find a school that was in a reasonable amount of distance ( I am actually 12 hrs away from home now, but thats as far as I will go)and that had my major, which is to say the least not that common.

It kinda sucks, I felt like (i dont wanna say screwed) but for lack of a better word, screwed. just because at my old school they made such a big deal about having so much fun, getting the best grades, etc. and yeah, I did feel comfortable around them, so I felt like I made the right choice, but still the fact that you say they are gung ho, is SO true!

didnt you say originally that you DIDN'T feel comfortable around your old chapter, which is why you wanted to re-rush and all that jazz?

Originally Posted by rhoyaltempest

Yup, I vote for hushing.

no, she can't hush until she answers AF's question as to why the drama. then she can hush all she wants.

[sarasmile]

I got through the first 4 pages and couldn't read anymore, so I have to ask...


Did anyone point out to her that frustrated has 2 Rs? I couldn't believe that it didn't happen on the first page. (Though Senusret's response was amusing. )


ETA: Phew - I see the posts quoted on this page that someone finally pointed it out. I was starting to think that maybe the extra "r" was there and my eyes were just playing tricks on me.

[khlkcca]

1. If you were so unhappy with your old chapter, why did you go through initiation?

2. Why in the world would you call the group you are trying to affiliate with the slutty group? I do not care if that is the rumored image. Do not call girls you want to accept you slutty!

[giggle528]

i dont think they are slutty..thats just what everyone else thinks.


ok you know what? i didnt come here to be freaking attacked by people who i dont even freaking know. I came here to vent, because maybe people here since mainly everyone is greek would understand my situtation, but i clearly was wrong. theres your answer happy?

you all are switching the story, putting words in my mouth, etc. I signed my bid because during rush i felt comfortable with the girls. during new member period, i still felt comfortable, BUT i was dissappointed because we never did anything, being dissappointed in the way they went about things and being comfortable around them as a person is COMPLETELY different. I went through initiation, because originally I was going to transfer to a school closer to home, and I was set on going there. They also had ABC too. at that time I didnt know that sometimes transfers arent accepted, so i figured that I would go through initation and the transfer into the other schools chapter. All the girls of my chapter knew that I was transfering, BUT the day after initation I went to go visit the school, and thats when i found out that I couldnt go there (for certain reasons). If I had known that before hand then I would of DPed for the respect of the group.

So there are your answers...now just leave me alone

[tld221]

Originally Posted by giggle528

So there are your answers...now just leave me alone

says the girl who keeps coming back for more...

[kathykd2005]

Originally Posted by giggle528

So there are your answers...now just leave me alone

You posted here. Why did you do so if you just wanted to be "left alone"? Obviously, people are going to comment on what you are saying.

Originally Posted by giggle528

i dont think they are slutty..thats just what everyone else thinks.


ok you know what? i didnt come here to be freaking attacked by people who i dont even freaking know. I came here to vent, because maybe people here since mainly everyone is greek would understand my situtation, but i clearly was wrong. theres your answer happy?

you all are switching the story, putting words in my mouth, etc. I signed my bid because during rush i felt comfortable with the girls. during new member period, i still felt comfortable, BUT i was dissappointed because we never did anything, being dissappointed in the way they went about things and being comfortable around them as a person is COMPLETELY different. I went through initiation, because originally I was going to transfer to a school closer to home, and I was set on going there. They also had ABC too. at that time I didnt know that sometimes transfers arent accepted, so i figured that I would go through initation and the transfer into the other schools chapter. All the girls of my chapter knew that I was transfering, BUT the day after initation I went to go visit the school, and thats when i found out that I couldnt go there (for certain reasons). If I had known that before hand then I would of DPed for the respect of the group.

So there are your answers...now just leave me alone

What sorority are you a member of?

[kathykd2005]

Originally Posted by OTW

What sorority are you a member of?

She probably won't say...

Originally Posted by kathykd2005

She probably won't say...

No shit.

But I was hoping she'd be dumb enough to at least answer.

Thanks a lot.